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I'm not sure I want any more children.

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I'm not sure I want any more children.

Yeahhhhhboi, Im on my smartphone!!!
Originally Posted by Cerendipity
I know I don't...
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And people wonder why so many women, girls, and even boys and men have so many body image issues.
Originally Posted by CocoT
Ummm...no CocoT. IMO this isn't the same thing. She put on some weight, BFD. But she is trying to squeeze into clothes that don't fit her and are unflattering. I'm sure another dress a couple of sizes bigger or with a different cut would have done her justice. Or she should loose the weight to get back into those clothes. I'm just sayin. I've seen plenty of skinny girls with outfits on that weren't made for them. I think that there are plenty of clothes she would look fabulous in, no shade to her weight.
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Filling out adoption papers and going over family profiles...

this is so overwhelming.
Originally Posted by tbabyy
It is very overwhelming but the payoff (parenthood) is so rewarding.

vIa mY cURl TaLk ApP
Originally Posted by Chicago Kinks
lol, I'm actually doing the exact opposite. I'm giving up, not getting.


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Filling out adoption papers and going over family profiles...

this is so overwhelming.
Originally Posted by tbabyy
It is very overwhelming but the payoff (parenthood) is so rewarding.

vIa mY cURl TaLk ApP
Originally Posted by Chicago Kinks
lol, I'm actually doing the exact opposite. I'm giving up, not getting.
Originally Posted by tbabyy
oh wow, my bad, I guess I shouldn't of assumed. Im sorry.
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Filling out adoption papers and going over family profiles...

this is so overwhelming.
Originally Posted by tbabyy
It is very overwhelming but the payoff (parenthood) is so rewarding.

vIa mY cURl TaLk ApP
Originally Posted by Chicago Kinks
lol, I'm actually doing the exact opposite. I'm giving up, not getting.
Originally Posted by tbabyy
Sometimes I can't tell if things like this are a good thing or a bad thing because different people have different responses to giving a baby up for adoption. So whichever feeling you have decided is for you, I am in agreement with you!

SN: My mom was going to give me up cuz she was 20 when she had me and she already had my older brother. All the paperwork was complete, t's crossed and i's dotted.....but a nurse in the hospital did an oops! She brought me to my mom to nurse (back then apparently the baby was immediately removed from the mother and that was the last she saw of him or her) because she mis-read the chart. She couldn't give me back.
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It is very overwhelming but the payoff (parenthood) is so rewarding.

vIa mY cURl TaLk ApP
Originally Posted by Chicago Kinks
lol, I'm actually doing the exact opposite. I'm giving up, not getting.
Originally Posted by tbabyy
Sometimes I can't tell if things like this are a good thing or a bad thing because different people have different responses to giving a baby up for adoption. So whichever feeling you have decided is for you, I am in agreement with you!

SN: My mom was going to give me up cuz she was 20 when she had me and she already had my older brother. All the paperwork was complete, t's crossed and i's dotted.....but a nurse in the hospital did an oops! She brought me to my mom to nurse (back then apparently the baby was immediately removed from the mother and that was the last she saw of him or her) because she mis-read the chart. She couldn't give me back.
Originally Posted by demsdata
Are you sure it was an oops on the nurse's part? I'd be the type to wonder if she was trying to sabotage my decision. *conspiracy theorist*

But I'm glad it worked out anyway

lol, I'm actually doing the exact opposite. I'm giving up, not getting.
Originally Posted by tbabyy
Sometimes I can't tell if things like this are a good thing or a bad thing because different people have different responses to giving a baby up for adoption. So whichever feeling you have decided is for you, I am in agreement with you!

SN: My mom was going to give me up cuz she was 20 when she had me and she already had my older brother. All the paperwork was complete, t's crossed and i's dotted.....but a nurse in the hospital did an oops! She brought me to my mom to nurse (back then apparently the baby was immediately removed from the mother and that was the last she saw of him or her) because she mis-read the chart. She couldn't give me back.
Originally Posted by demsdata
Are you sure it was an oops on the nurse's part? I'd be the type to wonder if she was trying to sabotage my decision. *conspiracy theorist*

But I'm glad it worked out anyway
Originally Posted by AmberBrown
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And people wonder why so many women, girls, and even boys and men have so many body image issues.
Originally Posted by CocoT
That's why I don't really call people fat unless I just overall don't like them, lol. I don't give a damn how much people weigh; I'm not trying to give anyone a complex. Do you, boo boo, is my motto.
Originally Posted by CurlyElectra
Well I call people fat when they are overweight and sloppy. If a person is overweight to me that doesn't automatically denote fat. For instance..I'm sure Oprah Winfrey is overweight for her height..but to me she's not fat because she's not sloppy. I'd refer to her as plus size or full figured.

Another example is Mo'Nique. Yes..we all know she's overweight but ain't nothing sloppy about her. So I'd never call her fat.

Britney Spears when she gained weight was FAT to me. And I know good an well she's probably never ever in her life weighed as much as Oprah and Mo'Nique do now..but Spears was sloppy as hell when she gained weight. So I called her fat.

I know that doesn't sit well with a lot of folks but that's how I feel about it. Have some couth about yaself no matter what size you are..large people do not have to look sloppy. I've seen some BOMB ass plus size women..just bringing it. Looking pulled together and fantastic..that's why I'm talkin' bout! Ain't nothing "fat" about that to me.
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And people wonder why so many women, girls, and even boys and men have so many body image issues.
Originally Posted by CocoT
Ummm...no CocoT. IMO this isn't the same thing. She put on some weight, BFD. But she is trying to squeeze into clothes that don't fit her and are unflattering. I'm sure another dress a couple of sizes bigger or with a different cut would have done her justice. Or she should loose the weight to get back into those clothes. I'm just sayin. I've seen plenty of skinny girls with outfits on that weren't made for them. I think that there are plenty of clothes she would look fabulous in, no shade to her weight.
Originally Posted by Kinky DaySha
RIGHT! Cause if Aguleria put on a dress that fit her appropriately with the right cut and all that junk she got in the trunk now..the right makeup and a bomb ass wig or weave..baby she would be straight baller. And she would REALLY be representin' right!

And okay she gained some weight...big deal. My issue is she looks sloppy as fruck in these clothes that are to small for her and just showing gut and saggy ticklebiddies.

You don't have to look sloppy and wear unflattering stuff JUST cause you have gained some weight or are plus size. There are to many examples of plus size women out here that look amazing for people that aren't poor (and she ain't no where near poor) to be look fat and sloppy.
That makes no sense
Originally Posted by foreverturtles
Maybe not to you but it makes sense to me. To me there is a difference. If it's not to you..okay. I respect that.
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And people wonder why so many women, girls, and even boys and men have so many body image issues.
Originally Posted by CocoT
That's why I don't really call people fat unless I just overall don't like them, lol. I don't give a damn how much people weigh; I'm not trying to give anyone a complex. Do you, boo boo, is my motto.
Originally Posted by CurlyElectra
Well I call people fat when they are overweight and sloppy. If a person is overweight to me that doesn't automatically denote fat. For instance..I'm sure Oprah Winfrey is overweight for her height..but to me she's not fat because she's not sloppy. I'd refer to her as plus size or full figured.

Another example is Mo'Nique. Yes..we all know she's overweight but ain't nothing sloppy about her. So I'd never call her fat.

Britney Spears when she gained weight was FAT to me. And I know good an well she's probably never ever in her life weighed as much as Oprah and Mo'Nique do now..but Spears was sloppy as hell when she gained weight. So I called her fat.

I know that doesn't sit well with a lot of folks but that's how I feel about it. Have some couth about yaself no matter what size you are..large people do not have to look sloppy. I've seen some BOMB ass plus size women..just bringing it. Looking pulled together and fantastic..that's why I'm talkin' bout! Ain't nothing "fat" about that to me.
Originally Posted by *Marah*
Clothes don't make you fat, non-fitting clothes make you look sloppy. A fat chick in a sharp outfit is just that a fat chick in a sharp outfit but she is still fat.
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I still feel some kind of way about these pesky lurkers...I feel like we should boycott giving hair advice or something.
Originally Posted by CurlyElectra
*comes out of lurkerdom* What's wrong with lurkers
Originally Posted by jubells
Ma'am...

On my EVO. I'm too fancy for proofreading.

That's why I don't really call people fat unless I just overall don't like them, lol. I don't give a damn how much people weigh; I'm not trying to give anyone a complex. Do you, boo boo, is my motto.
Originally Posted by CurlyElectra
Well I call people fat when they are overweight and sloppy. If a person is overweight to me that doesn't automatically denote fat. For instance..I'm sure Oprah Winfrey is overweight for her height..but to me she's not fat because she's not sloppy. I'd refer to her as plus size or full figured.

Another example is Mo'Nique. Yes..we all know she's overweight but ain't nothing sloppy about her. So I'd never call her fat.

Britney Spears when she gained weight was FAT to me. And I know good an well she's probably never ever in her life weighed as much as Oprah and Mo'Nique do now..but Spears was sloppy as hell when she gained weight. So I called her fat.

I know that doesn't sit well with a lot of folks but that's how I feel about it. Have some couth about yaself no matter what size you are..large people do not have to look sloppy. I've seen some BOMB ass plus size women..just bringing it. Looking pulled together and fantastic..that's why I'm talkin' bout! Ain't nothing "fat" about that to me.
Originally Posted by *Marah*
Clothes don't make you fat, non-fitting clothes make you look sloppy. A fat chick in a sharp outfit is just that a fat chick in a sharp outfit but she is still fat.
Originally Posted by Chicago Kinks
But I never said clothes do make anyone fat. What I'm saying is if you are overweight and wear clothes that are ill fitted (can be loose or tight) then in my own mind I think fat and sloppy. A woman that is overweight but isn't dressed sloppy doesn't denote "fat" to me..I automatically think full figured or plus size. Given, I have common enough sense to know technically in both instances..the people are overweight.

So I believe it's subjective.
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Originally Posted by gagirl09
Dear goodness..I can't stand them...that whole being together while he was a married man left a bad impression on me with both of them. I'm not nuts for Bey and Jay either but AT least he or she wasn't nobody's husband and wife when they got together.

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