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Old 04-03-2012, 10:14 AM   #9281
 
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Thank you all for your advice, love and support. I do feel like adoption was the best decision out of all the options I had at the time. After he was born, a lot more options opened up. I was so afraid of being judged and my family disappointed in me that no one in my family or the baby's father knew I was pregnant until after I had him. Probably one of the biggest mistakes was not knowing how many ppl were there for me, not judging me but willing to help me. Once I knew that, it made things a lot clearer, a lot more simple. But now I have given this couple a child and just in a couple of days taken him away from them. I truly feel bad and that is what is really killing me. My mom told me not to worry about it because God put me and them in this situation for a reason. They will find their strength and so will I.

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Old 04-03-2012, 10:27 AM   #9282
 
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Well Tbaby.. congrats then. Since these things are such a personal thing.. I never made any comments about your situation. I felt you'd reveal what you wanted ..if you wanted.

If you think it's best for your child to be with you..then that's all that matters. As his mother..it is your call. I think it's normal to feel bad for the family that wanted the baby. But I think their advisors probably informed them that sometimes the birth mothers do change their minds. I'm glad to hear that your realized the support and help you will have.. it's honestly sad to me though you went thru your entire pregnancy and the adoption situation all alone with those kinds of worrries. I'm very glad that turned out to not be accurate...and you really do have people in your corner.

I wish you, your son, and family all the best!
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Old 04-03-2012, 10:43 AM   #9283
 
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UPS stays on that bull poo poo.

How do you tell me you made a first attempt and we were closed. THERE is AT LEAST 500 cars in the parking lot. CLOSED where???

i'm going to need you to turn your truck around and bring my package sir!
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Old 04-03-2012, 10:47 AM   #9284
 
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Thank you all for your advice, love and support. I do feel like adoption was the best decision out of all the options I had at the time. After he was born, a lot more options opened up. I was so afraid of being judged and my family disappointed in me that no one in my family or the baby's father knew I was pregnant until after I had him. Probably one of the biggest mistakes was not knowing how many ppl were there for me, not judging me but willing to help me. Once I knew that, it made things a lot clearer, a lot more simple. But now I have given this couple a child and just in a couple of days taken him away from them. I truly feel bad and that is what is really killing me. My mom told me not to worry about it because God put me and them in this situation for a reason. They will find their strength and so will I.

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Old 04-03-2012, 10:59 AM   #9285
 
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@Marah thank you very much. My family was sooo worried about me and they said the same thing you said about me having to go through all this by myself when I didn't have to. They were even more worried because there were complications and he ended up being so early and I didn't have anybody there for me because no one knew. I know now that I can't be afraid to talk to my family no matter how scared I may be of what they may say.

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Old 04-03-2012, 11:42 AM   #9286
 
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:17 PM   #9287
 
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:26 PM   #9288
 
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Life has a funny way of smacking you in the face when you least expect it.

My mom has been here visiting with me since last week. Yesterday I vented about her excessive need to talk and today I found out a close associate of mine lost her mother unexpectantly on Thursday. Her mom was only a few months older than my mom, and while her mom had a few health concerns, it was nothing immediately life threatening. She and I were just talking a week or so ago and she was venting about her mom and was in the process of planning a vacation with her daughters and her mother. I feel so bad because she won't get that opportunity.

I need to go home and hug my ma. As much as she annoys the **** out of me at times...I love her to death and the thought of her not being here to annoy me is sobering.
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Old 04-03-2012, 12:29 PM   #9289
 
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@Marah thank you very much. My family was sooo worried about me and they said the same thing you said about me having to go through all this by myself when I didn't have to. They were even more worried because there were complications and he ended up being so early and I didn't have anybody there for me because no one knew. I know now that I can't be afraid to talk to my family no matter how scared I may be of what they may say.

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Old 04-03-2012, 01:21 PM   #9290
 
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thug life sandwiches.....the daily struggles of a thug. cause I refuse to go to the grocery store. thugs gotta make do.
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Old 04-03-2012, 01:32 PM   #9291
 
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Life has a funny way of smacking you in the face when you least expect it.

My mom has been here visiting with me since last week. Yesterday I vented about her excessive need to talk and today I found out a close associate of mine lost her mother unexpectantly on Thursday. Her mom was only a few months older than my mom, and while her mom had a few health concerns, it was nothing immediately life threatening. She and I were just talking a week or so ago and she was venting about her mom and was in the process of planning a vacation with her daughters and her mother. I feel so bad because she won't get that opportunity.

I need to go home and hug my ma. As much as she annoys the **** out of me at times...I love her to death and the thought of her not being here to annoy me is sobering.
I almost said exactly this when I saw you venting. But I know you needed to vent. I only wish I still had my mother around to be able vent about her! What I would give to see her again...

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Old 04-03-2012, 02:04 PM   #9292
 
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Lord I found a website that sells soy chicken half breast wholesale. I'm gonna need to take a look at that cuz these lil 7-8 oz packages that are anywhere from $3-$5 ain't doing it. Now if I could get daiya in bulk...


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Old 04-03-2012, 02:08 PM   #9293
 
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thug life sandwiches.....the daily struggles of a thug. cause I refuse to go to the grocery store. thugs gotta make do.
umm is that pepperoni lololollllllllllllll
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Old 04-03-2012, 02:26 PM   #9294
 
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thug life sandwiches.....the daily struggles of a thug. cause I refuse to go to the grocery store. thugs gotta make do.
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Park Slope parents back ban on ice-cream trucks in Prospect Park to avoid screaming kids - NYPOST.com

this is a new level of entitlement.

"i can't manage to say no to my spoiled brat of a child, so hard working ppl should be deprived of their livelihood to spare me from doing some actual parenting"

some ppl should NOT have children.
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Old 04-03-2012, 02:47 PM   #9296
 
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my feeling bad about asking myhusband to help clean went OUT THE WINDOW when he came in,took a shower and got in bed....im sry...i thought i was the one chasing a 2 yr old all day and growing a baby in my belly AND sick. i must of had a look of death on my face cause he didnt say no or im tired once while i put him to work. he just did it as i said lol


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Old 04-03-2012, 02:55 PM   #9298
 
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yo jo somebody, i didn't know you made music!

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Old 04-03-2012, 03:10 PM   #9299
 
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Okay.. yeah I reaaaaally wish I would have waited to get the Smoked Whitefish Salad until the last minute. I frickken love it and I'm eating it up before Passover even gets here. And my excuse is.. because I'm trying to get rid of the chametz..I have to eat the Whitefish Salad on bagels.

My husband is looking at me like, "Now you knew that was a damn lie before you even fixed your mouth to say it!"

I can't help it.. I have an addiction!!!

Let me go look at the Salmon Salad now.. LOL!
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I always knew Jo Somebody was really an adolescent white boy. LOL!

Let me stop before Jo comes in here and cusses me out!
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