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Keenylicious · 04-12-2012, 08:00 PM

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i dun get why you alwys talkin down to people. i think you just bitter cus people dont like you. i saw that thread where ppl were sayin how they was happy you was gone. i think thats why you mad and always mean to people

*looking around for the cameras*

This has got to be a joke or something.....that read like the script from Roots.

i think this is what they spent most of their school year's doing/saying.

cheveuxbouclés · 04-12-2012, 08:01 PM

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I don't remember every single debate/e-argument I got into here--- but I will remember if you got disrespectful/condescending/kept on antagonizing.

I also recognize that we are humans and sometimes we say something off the cuff that may not necessarily reflect us in general. I know I am in a bad mood sometimes and I refrain from typing because I know I will sound like a grade A c*nt. With that being said, some people know EXACTLY what they are saying or doing when they start some ish up. And while I may give you a pass the first time or two, I will still keep in mind that you like to start sh*t.

I think the bigger issue for me here is that there is no consistency on who and what gets called out by moderators. I just think that a lot of the "scolding" is geared towards certain folks and I can't get down with that.

+100000

Cheveux you confused the heck out of me for about 15 seconds. This is just like those people on Fb who like their own dang posts

I haven't heard anyone say beadybeads since like 8th grade. Memories.

Hahahaha I know right. Just had to do it though.

May I also take this time to say: Jesus -be a remedial 5th grade grammar class.

gagirl09 · 04-12-2012, 08:01 PM

That.thread.was.epic. Seriously all 12 pages had dramatic music soundtrack playing in my head. The statement I took away?? White people need call other whites on racist bullish(gross paraphrase). Now to this thread seriously what was that post for?

Curse you iPhone!!!

CocoT · 04-12-2012, 08:03 PM

Saria · 04-12-2012, 08:03 PM

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I don't think I've ever sent a PM because someone offended me.

I have to disagree with the idea that it doesn't matter what someone you don't know thinks. Of course for certain things that's true, but it does have an effect on me, even indirect as it may be, that someone holds racist/sexist/etc. views. Those things affect everyone. Now I get that the odds of changing anyone are slim, but then there are people who will tell you that they did change, and it was because there were people who were willing to question and contest their views.

I understand where you are coming from Saria and respect your views on this... I guess I just don't relate to taking what someone on a message board says so internally that it cripples you as a person in real life. Sure, I think people can become friends online, learn interesting and new things..but I don't think people's random comments on the net should be something a person defines their whole worth on or lose their sense of self over.

But I do understand for some people..it's different. I'm just saying it doesn't make sense to me. I guess sort of like to "ignore" someone doesn't make sense to you.

No, I get that and agree, which is why I just can't take something a certain troll says about any posters seriously and don't get why some people get so hurt that people respond/egg on said troll for the sake of amusement.

In saying it's not all irrelevant though. If I can get someone to consider that they're wrong about some oppressive bull they're holding on, that's one less person, which is less chance of encountering one of them in real life. These people vote. These people have some power, like all of us, do, insignificant as it is. Are the odds incredibly slim that anything I say or anyone else says will make a difference? Sure, but I'd still rather say something than go "whatever, I don't know you, so it doesn't affect me".

Chicago Kinks · 04-12-2012, 08:04 PM

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i dun have no dam handle. this me and i been here. dats why i dun post alot cus yall like to call people trolls and stuff.

am jus sayin that peopl dun like you cus you always arguin wit people. and when you was gone people made a whole thread just to say they ain like you. some maybe somethins wrong wit you

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tbabyy · 04-12-2012, 08:05 PM

Thanks, CocoT

murrrcat · 04-12-2012, 08:05 PM

beadybeads · 04-12-2012, 08:06 PM

i dun need no grammer classes. this ain no school essay. its not that serious for me to wright proper.

cheveuxbouclés · 04-12-2012, 08:07 PM

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Laughter tears in my eyes from the simplest gif.

*Marah* · 04-12-2012, 08:08 PM

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i dun get why you alwys talkin down to people. i think you just bitter cus people dont like you. i saw that thread where ppl were sayin how they was happy you was gone. i think thats why you mad and always mean to people

Look..speak to me about some stuff when you aren't hiding behind some handle you use for saying provocative stuff just to get a rise. I talk how I talk..if folks don't like it there is the ignore feature. I'm not mad or always mean to people. I just don't go for bs..that's all. I say what the hell I mean and I mean what the hell I say. Period. I rarely hold any mules..so.

i dun have no dam handle. this me and i been here. dats why i dun post alot cus yall like to call people trolls and stuff.

am jus sayin that peopl dun like you cus you always arguin wit people. and when you was gone people made a whole thread just to say they ain like you. some maybe somethins wrong wit you

Um..okay. If they did.. so what. That's their perogative. These folks don't know me.. okay so they made a thread and said they didn't like me and they think something is wrong with me.. big deal. What real difference does it make ? None. Not to me anyway.

But I think it's serious bs that you aren't using this fake handle to be provocative. You are speaking like you are from the 1800's and never fully learned how to read and write properly. So it's difficult to believe this is how you normally speak/type/post in 2012..you are clearly trying to disguise your posting style. You are using a handle to say something you aren't woman enough to say with your regular handle. And it just goes to prove the point I've been making around here about sneaky underhanded bs.

So I thank you for proving me correct.

cheveuxbouclés · 04-12-2012, 08:09 PM

I am over here rolling, not chuckle chuckle... holding my stomach from laughing so hard. You cannot make this mess up.

Chicago Kinks · 04-12-2012, 08:09 PM

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i dun need no grammer classes. this ain no school essay. its not that serious for me to wright proper.

Yea, but damn is that Latin or pygmy...cause it damn sure aint English or any variation of the English language.

Lesson for the day kids - reading is fund-a-mental!

Saria · 04-12-2012, 08:10 PM

I wanna read this thread being discussed now!

Ninjarette · 04-12-2012, 08:11 PM

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i dun need no grammer classes. this ain no school essay. its not that serious for me to wright proper.

Yea, but damn is that Latin or pygmy...cause it damn sure aint English or any variation of the English language.

It's "Kizzinese"

Saria · 04-12-2012, 08:11 PM

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I am over hear rolling, not chuckle chuckle... holding my stomach from laughing so hard. You cannot make this mess up.

Same. Too ****ing funny.

Keenylicious · 04-12-2012, 08:13 PM

i'm laughing SO HARD right now. i'm CRYING.

CocoT · 04-12-2012, 08:13 PM

CurlyElectra · 04-12-2012, 08:14 PM

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Like @Amber said, I want to know where I stand with people. I can take a$$holes, ESPECIALLY over the damn internet, but there are people who act big and tough in "public," then cop out or break down in private. I can't get with that. If you want to throw down on the net (which honestly I don't see the point of), don't renege on it privately, or act like everything on the internet is trivial then be concerned with whether certain posters are upset with you. I cannot stand two faced people.

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I don't think I've ever PM'ed you nor you me.

And if we have.. I know it wasn't to discuss the above..since that sort of thing irks me. I will say I certainly can respect your stance on the frontin' in the forum and then in private doing something else. That has occurred a few times with me and other posters. But I don't divulge info from private conversations.. I think that's incredibly disrespectful and a betrayal of someone's trust. It is something I find annoying though.

But since you want to know where you stand with folks.. I will say that I'm honestly not upset with you about your latest posts to me or what definitely came across to me as your snark. I think that's just you.. you are snarky. I know you say it's "blunt" but eh..I'm pretty blunt myself..so nothing you say ever needed to be sugar coated for me and honestly I think you know better than that. If you don't..well now you do.

And I know I'm not the only person that thinks it but so what.. ? Plenty of people think things about me that I've read on here and been told in private. So what. I think you and I have incredibly different experiences in life (except for some racism we've discussed), different value systems, and different approaches to things. But I think my experiences are probably different than most here. I don't think that make either of us better than the other..just different. I have enjoyed different interactions with you on this forum..others with you.. not so much. But the enjoyments has outweighed the not so much ones. Having said that.. I don't think you understand me as well as you think you do.. there is only one person on this forum that I really think fully understands me and she doesn't involve herself in these sorts of things. But she and I come from similiar backgrounds so it's to be expected.

But I'm fine with you..sure I have my perceptions of you but I don't hold any grudge, ill will, or distain for you. If you do me.. I can certainly live with that..but I'd prefer you didn't.

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Bolded #1: I never referred to you pm'ing me or vice versa. My OP about the matter referred to people PM'ing any poster about being offended or hurt about something they said on the board.

Bolded #2: I think you (and some others) read my posts as snarky when there is no snark intended. And that's not all the time either - sometimes yes, I'm snarky, yup. But last night? Nope, no snark there. If you take it another way, there's nothing I can do for you. There have been times on this board where I have played things out in my head as playful, but isn't taken like that because I'm not a "vet" and people don't "know" me, and I've also seen people say things that I know would get REAMED if a "newbie" said it. For a fact. That's the nature of the boards (not just this board, any online forum). I get that. Oh well.

Bolded #3: This is pure childishness. If other people think that about me, that's cool, but don't reference private cosigners in your posts. I've never done that to you and I could say the same. Be a woman and stand by your own opinion. Honestly, I'm surprised you resorted to that.

Bolded #4: I understand you, and this board, better than a majority of you think I do. And I'll leave that at that.

Bolded #5: I have certain perceptions of you as well, and at the end of the day, it doesn't matter. Like you said, we are only on the internet. I would never wish you or your family ill will without even ever speaking to you over the phone or you doing me some massive, great wrong. That's some ****ty ****, I don't roll like that.

CurlyElectra · 04-12-2012, 08:16 PM

Wait. I...what?