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When I read the tags for this thread it makes me sad that I missed out on all the fun. Some of those tags are a trip. I'm too lazy to go back and read the beginning of this thread.

Have any of you seen that Obama loses his Sh1t video on you tube with his anger translator Luther? Tooooo funny.

Key & Peele: Obama Loses His SH*T - YouTube
Originally Posted by tae082
OMG! When he started jumping up and down about the tea party...I didn't want to watch this show...I think I'm going to have to check it out now.
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People should be willing to stand by the things they say. Or they shouldn't say them. If your opinion can't stand in the light of day...maybe it should stay in the dark...in your head?
- AmberBrown
nah son, you can enjoy this hair board.

I'm done. I'm taking a stand.
There really is some bias bs going on here.

So me and my mule is bouncing, for how long, does anybody know? I don't. But I cannot with this forum anymore.


So I'm gonna listen to chris brown's take you down, and imagine james franco walking into my room with only his trouser snake on.....





and like usher says

Peace Up, A town down.



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Usually, if I feel like someone hates me, I don't follow them around attempting to provoke them.

I'm 99.9% sure you're trying to provoke folks in here so someone will tell you ALL about yourself, and you can report them and try to have them banned.

Not gonna be me - at this point, I don't even have any anger towards you, I just can't, shan't, and won't with you.
Originally Posted by CurlyElectra
Not once they call you out, you don't.

Oh, and Marah already tried to tell me all about myself; didn't work. I'm still half Jewish, and she's still "Slim Shady" style bonkers.
Originally Posted by ninja dog

Now how on EARTH she has the gall to talk about hatefulness and she's personally attacking me in this very post ?

Gretchen.. I know doggone well you see this mess she has said and started over here! I said what I had to say but I didn't call this lady any names. I gave my opinion. But this is what we are talking about.. she comes way over here with this nonsense.. talking about how we are hateful. Yet SHE is the one that always calls us out of our name. First we were the b word, then we were jackals, earlier today we were a mob.. now I gotta be "Slim Shady bonkers"

Are you kidding me right now ? I mean seriously ? And then peace is wanted.. so now what.. can I call her all out her name as well ? I mean because if she gets to do it with no consequences why can't we all just totally say whatever violates the rules as well ?

I mean what in the world are yall working on if she can do this mess for the umpteenth time with no consequence ? See this is exactly why certain people think it's totally acceptable to call people curse words, say racist and homophobic stuff here. She does it and gets away with it scott free. But yall worried about a siggy.

Wow.
Originally Posted by *Marah*
I have to agree. At least two * explicitly* personal attacks were made on Marah today and nothing was done (as far as I have seen) about it.


Has anyone actually had the 3-day-timeout implemented on them? I feel like at this point everyone believes it to be a weak threat because the limits keep getting pushed. There won't be any peace until someone actually has to suffer the consequences of posting unnecessarily negative/hateful things and it is made clear that each and every member will be held to that standard.

It's like walking into a school that never gives anyone detention or a city that never sends anyone to prison. Or dealing with a bunch of children with parents that always threatened timeout but never actually sat them in the corner and told them to stay there. (Here, I'm talking about the board as a whole...not any one group or one poster).
Does anyone else love best friend songs? This just slayed me!!!

Key & Peele: My Best Friend - YouTube

Those kinds of songs always crack me up - like in The Hangover when he sang the Three Best Friends song...classic.
People should be willing to stand by the things they say. Or they shouldn't say them. If your opinion can't stand in the light of day...maybe it should stay in the dark...in your head?
- AmberBrown
Quit, while you're behind. You can't win. If any of the 4a "hard hitters" (meanies) decide to pitch, you will be in therapy for months.

Go back to your neck of the woods, where you may have some reinforcements....although I think your posse has grown weary, because you continue to try and swing, when you clearly can't hang. Going down with the ship is not always a good thing. Yeah, you can go back and forth, and we'll raise a fist to your memory, as your fist is the last part of you to go down in the water...but you still lose. It's time to end this incessant, useless bickering...and that's for others too.

Now, I don't agree with the "Scarlet R" siggy, nor do I think "thug" means "young black man". But to CONTINUE to defend somebody who apparently has a long history (one I wasn't aware of, not at the level it is) of saying stupid, dumb, explosive mess...and then walkin' away from the devastation, only to return some time later to...do it all over again, is not going to be looked at favorably. Time to move on, or move out...or whatever term is appropriate to indicate "game over", or "this does not compute" or...whatever.

All the new company we're gettin' over here is nice. But please don't bring that OT flavor over here...and yes, I think 4a is the place to be - despite our own issues.
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Not once they call you out, you don't.

Oh, and Marah already tried to tell me all about myself; didn't work. I'm still half Jewish, and she's still "Slim Shady" style bonkers.
Originally Posted by ninja dog

Now how on EARTH she has the gall to talk about hatefulness and she's personally attacking me in this very post ?

Gretchen.. I know doggone well you see this mess she has said and started over here! I said what I had to say but I didn't call this lady any names. I gave my opinion. But this is what we are talking about.. she comes way over here with this nonsense.. talking about how we are hateful. Yet SHE is the one that always calls us out of our name. First we were the b word, then we were jackals, earlier today we were a mob.. now I gotta be "Slim Shady bonkers"

Are you kidding me right now ? I mean seriously ? And then peace is wanted.. so now what.. can I call her all out her name as well ? I mean because if she gets to do it with no consequences why can't we all just totally say whatever violates the rules as well ?

I mean what in the world are yall working on if she can do this mess for the umpteenth time with no consequence ? See this is exactly why certain people think it's totally acceptable to call people curse words, say racist and homophobic stuff here. She does it and gets away with it scott free. But yall worried about a siggy.

Wow.
Originally Posted by *Marah*
I have to agree. At least two * explicitly* personal attacks were made on Marah today and nothing was done (as far as I have seen) about it.


Has anyone actually had the 3-day-timeout implemented on them? I feel like at this point everyone believes it to be a weak threat because the limits keep getting pushed. There won't be any peace until someone actually has to suffer the consequences of posting unnecessarily negative/hateful things and it is made clear that each and every member will be held to that standard.

It's like walking into a school that never gives anyone detention or a city that never sends anyone to prison. Or dealing with a bunch of children with parents that always threatened timeout but never actually sat them in the corner and told them to stay there. (Here, I'm talking about the board as a whole...not any one group or one poster).
Originally Posted by greenjumper
I don't think anyone has done the 3 day thing yet.

I do have to say though I'm glad none of us that are so supposedly "hateful" have resorted to calling anyone out of their name and just taking it to all heights of ignorant.

Yet we are the hateful ones that deserve to be called the b word, jackals, mob, witches (in the form of Weird Sisters), oh and I'm "Slim Shady" bonkers (which was corny and silly to say the least). But you don't see me running around lying in wait just to start some mess with people..totally ignoring rules and professing that I'm going rogue.. acting as if I'm going Postal or something while still playing victim now do you ?

There's an old saying.. "Sweep around your own front door before you try to sweep around mine..."

Last edited by *Marah*; 04-13-2012 at 11:54 PM.
When I read the tags for this thread it makes me sad that I missed out on all the fun. Some of those tags are a trip. I'm too lazy to go back and read the beginning of this thread.

Have any of you seen that Obama loses his Sh1t video on you tube with his anger translator Luther? Tooooo funny.

Key & Peele: Obama Loses His SH*T - YouTube
Originally Posted by tae082
You should have seen the tags in the original 4a Say It. They would have you rolling.
Originally Posted by adthomas
I was around for that. It is just that when the new thread started I was mia for a while.
I think I will go retread the mop top thread
You know what I will press that button. It's deep in my world when I come out to comment on this foolishness going on right noe. I am so sick of this racial mess and Jo Somebody's post from Facebook was straight on point. Maybe cause I was dark skinned I was not part of the in crowd but these blinders people want to cling to is why I had to deal with this mess at UGA. My dorm leader knocking on my door claiming me and my roommate were loud and not talking to white ladies on my hall who would be just as loud. Somebody writing n**gah on my my door and white folks trying to calm me down saying it wasn't er so it's okay( that thread pissed me the eff off). When I got a C on a test and talking with another dude about it and his roommate decides to say in a patronizing tone you can do better. And not to mention being blatantly sexualized by the white men on my campus. One boy who I hardly talked to showed me his vibrator randomly in the hall as I was trying to go to my room. Others rubbing on me and skit. So don't tell me ohhhhh well we should just get over it and not call people out on this and that. Bull incredible bull and it will only keep the cycle of ignorance and acceptance of that ignorance on all wheels of the rainbow going.

Beady beads you were dead wrong for what you said to Marah. It was comment that was unprovoked and extremely inappropriate. I am sorry that you were or felt like you were ganged up on when you first started posting but these last few pages have been about venting about another thread about racial issues and your timing was off. If you felt upset you should have PM'd Marah. I am done and now my mule shall join Keeney and T for some delicious cuisine. My mule is vegan is that ok?


Curse you iPhone!!!
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me and james franco butt naked on my mule came back to say


COCO YOU BETTTTTAAAAA PREACHHHHHHH THE GOOD WORD


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Foster Friess: 'I Hope Obama's Teleprompters Are Bulletproof' - chicagotribune.com

Why are people still going on and on and on about Obama and his teleprompter. So what he uses one? He doesn't have it every time he speaks. Maybe if some people ::ahemmm:: used it a little more often they wouldn't always be in the news quoted as saying something stupid.
Originally Posted by greenjumper
I just want to say as someone who regularly uses a telepromter that the sh*t is not easy. Most of the time there are bright lights right behind the camera making it hard to read because of the glare. Then you have to worry about the person running it scrolling too fast or too slow where the words end up getting cut off. It took me years to get comfortable with tps because you are basically having a conversation with an inatimate object that gives you no feedback or reaction but still try to have feeling in your voice like you're talking to an actual person. I compare it to talking to a wall. I would much rather have a few notes and go off the cuff any day.
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Curse you iPhone!!!
Originally Posted by gagirl09
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Foster Friess: 'I Hope Obama's Teleprompters Are Bulletproof' - chicagotribune.com

Why are people still going on and on and on about Obama and his teleprompter. So what he uses one? He doesn't have it every time he speaks. Maybe if some people ::ahemmm:: used it a little more often they wouldn't always be in the news quoted as saying something stupid.
Originally Posted by greenjumper
I just want to say as someone who regularly uses a telepromter that the sh*t is not easy. Most of the time there are bright lights right behind the camera making it hard to read because of the glare. Then you have to worry about the person running it scrolling too fast or too slow where the words end up getting cut off. It took me years to get comfortable with tps because you are basically having a conversation with an inatimate object that gives you no feedback or reaction but still try to have feeling in your voice like you're talking to an actual person. I compare it to talking to a wall. I would much rather have a few notes and go off the cuff any day.
Originally Posted by adthomas
Really, hmm, I never thought about them being hard to use but I see where they could be now that you've pointed it out.

I just think it's funny that people are still grasping for things to criticize. I'm not saying President Obama is without fault but could they bring up something of relevance....criticize his decisions or his politics. Why is it always "he uses a teleprompter" or "he has the middle name of a Muslim". Why is it always something that doesn't actually matter?
me and james franco butt naked on my mule came back to say


COCO YOU BETTTTTAAAAA PREACHHHHHHH THE GOOD WORD


Originally Posted by murrrcat
Turtles, you and your naked "a$$" can have a plate of my ghetti.
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You know what I will press that button. It's deep in my world when I come out to comment on this foolishness going on right noe. I am so sick of this racial mess and Jo Somebody's post from Facebook was straight on point. Maybe cause I was dark skinned I was not part of the in crowd but these blinders people want to cling to is why I had to deal with this mess at UGA. My dorm leader knocking on my door claiming me and my roommate were loud and not talking to white ladies on my hall who would be just as loud. Somebody writing n**gah on my my door and white folks trying to calm me down saying it wasn't er so it's okay( that thread pissed me the eff off). When I got a C on a test and talking with another dude about it and his roommate decides to say in a patronizing tone you can do better. And not to mention being blatantly sexualized by the white men on my campus. One boy who I hardly talked to showed me his vibrator randomly in the hall as I was trying to go to my room. Others rubbing on me and skit. So don't tell me ohhhhh well we should just get over it and not call people out on this and that. Bull incredible bull and it will only keep the cycle of ignorance and acceptance of that ignorance on all wheels of the rainbow going.

Beady beads you were dead wrong for what you said to Marah. It was comment that was unprovoked and extremely inappropriate. I am sorry that you were or felt like you were ganged up on when you first started posting but these last few pages have been about venting about another thread about racial issues and your timing was off. If you felt upset you should have PM'd Marah. I am done and now my mule shall join Keeney and T for some delicious cuisine. My mule is vegan is that ok?


Curse you iPhone!!!
Originally Posted by gagirl09
you gotta bring your own food. we got spaghetti w/ meat sauce and cookies made w/ milk over here.

does your mule drink? i got some chocolate tequila.
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Oh yea.. I read that Jo Somebody posted this and I have to be Mrs (I'm murried) Run Tell Dat..cause I know some of yall don't venture out of 4a

Having recently entered into a racial debate in another group which soon descended into a full scale online row, I now try to avoid racial debates because I've come to realize that debating is just another derailing tactic.

There is nothing to debate. Racism exists. It’s widespread. It’s a problem. It's not as bad as white folks think because it's actually much, much worse. So if you come across a white person who wants to argue, cloud the issue, split hairs then you've reached the end of the conversation - period. It's not your job to convert people. They have to choose to either be a decent human being or to support the racist colonialist system that exists. Establish these boundaries immediately and stick to them. If they ask you if you really do experience racism, ask them why they're asking you that. If they start with lines like, "I can't imagine," "I refuse to believe," "I just don't see," end the conversation.

Racial Discussion Is Not an "Exchange" of Ideas. One of the popular lines from white people who talk about race online is, "This is why we need to have these conversations more often." My version is : "We've already been having this conversation. We've been having it for centuries. You just didn't want to listen, and you still don't. So if we're going to do this, it's going to start with your listening. This isn't about what we can learn from each other - this is about you learning from me, and you're already behind by four centuries. There are no two ways about it. It is non-negotiable. If that hurts your feelings or bruises your ego, then admit to yourself now that you are weak and/or not cut out for this."

Do Not End Racial Discussions on a Positive Note.If white people end racial discussions on an optimistic note, they stop thinking about what they were hearing about only moments earlier. They're happy. They feel absolved and they tell themselves that things will eventually work themselves out. They're not motivated to do anything. That's why they have to leave these discussions bothered, troubled and deeply perturbed. They need to hear and see the worst. We don't get a slow, gentle, candy-coated introduction to the pains of racism. Never have. White folks shouldn't get to either.

White ppl have had 400 years to "get it" and their performance so far has been abysmal. What leads to many black people’s frustration is most of us operate under the misguided notion that intelligence is all someone needs to learn something. Learning, in fact, requires additional components to intelligence, like consistent practice, research, recall, overall self-discipline, and a need for the absolute truth of things. White privilege conditions much of this out of most white people by the time they hit puberty.

Some of you call it being patient or being the bigger person. F**K THAT. You don't need white people to like you - if they cross the line, make them uncomfortable. Remember white people BELIEVE YOU when you come with that sweet talk. They BELIEVE YOU when you laugh off their racism. We have already overcome and survived a lot in this world and we did so without the support from white people. Many of us were tortured and killed...and WE'RE STILL HERE. So do not doubt your worth or tone down your voice or temper your strength. So if you're being dehumanized socially, assert yourself and walk way. If you're being dehumanized occupationally or academically...LEGAL ACTION.

DON'T EVER LET THEM PUNK YOU !!

Tolerance is a ******** term and black people need to stop tolerating from hereon out, online and in real life.

Having recently entered into a racial debate in another group which soon descended into a full scale online row, I now try to avoid racial debates because I've come to realize that debating is just another derailing tactic.

There is nothing to debate. Racism exists. It’s widespread. It’s a problem. It's not as bad as white folks think because it's actually much, much worse. So if you come across a white person who wants to argue, cloud the issue, split hairs then you've reached the end of the conversation - period. It's not your job to convert people. They have to choose to either be a decent human being or to support the racist colonialist system that exists. Establish these boundaries immediately and stick to them. If they ask you if you really do experience racism, ask them why they're asking you that. If they start with lines like, "I can't imagine," "I refuse to believe," "I just don't see," end the conversation.

Racial Discussion Is Not an "Exchange" of Ideas. One of the popular lines from white people who talk about race online is, "This is why we need to have these conversations more often." My version is : "We've already been having this conversation. We've been having it for centuries. You just didn't want to listen, and you still don't. So if we're going to do this, it's going to start with your listening. This isn't about what we can learn from each other - this is about you learning from me, and you're already behind by four centuries. There are no two ways about it. It is non-negotiable. If that hurts your feelings or bruises your ego, then admit to yourself now that you are weak and/or not cut out for this."

Do Not End Racial Discussions on a Positive Note.If white people end racial discussions on an optimistic note, they stop thinking about what they were hearing about only moments earlier. They're happy. They feel absolved and they tell themselves that things will eventually work themselves out. They're not motivated to do anything. That's why they have to leave these discussions bothered, troubled and deeply perturbed. They need to hear and see the worst. We don't get a slow, gentle, candy-coated introduction to the pains of racism. Never have. White folks shouldn't get to either.

White ppl have had 400 years to "get it" and their performance so far has been abysmal. What leads to many black people’s frustration is most of us operate under the misguided notion that intelligence is all someone needs to learn something. Learning, in fact, requires additional components to intelligence, like consistent practice, research, recall, overall self-discipline, and a need for the absolute truth of things. White privilege conditions much of this out of most white people by the time they hit puberty.

Some of you call it being patient or being the bigger person. F**K THAT. You don't need white people to like you - if they cross the line, make them uncomfortable. Remember white people BELIEVE YOU when you come with that sweet talk. They BELIEVE YOU when you laugh off their racism. We have already overcome and survived a lot in this world and we did so without the support from white people. Many of us were tortured and killed...and WE'RE STILL HERE. So do not doubt your worth or tone down your voice or temper your strength. So if you're being dehumanized socially, assert yourself and walk way. If you're being dehumanized occupationally or academically...LEGAL ACTION.

DON'T EVER LET THEM PUNK YOU !!

Tolerance is a ******** term and black people need to stop tolerating from hereon out, online and in real life.
Thank you Jo. I wish I could put all this in my darn siggy.. but the staff would definitely have me in the grave 3 days and 3 nights and they would be right to do so because.. you know that would be a hot mess having all that in a siggy.. hee hee!
Originally Posted by *Marah*
I wish I could claim they were my words! It was something someone posted in one of the debate groups I'm in on Facebook. Many a hallelujah-dance was had that day! I had to do some real thinking after reading it. It sure schooled me, but in a way that pretty much made me drop my jaw and slap my forehead. I have always been a no conflict, 'can't we all just please get along' girl and while it allowed me to remain comfortable, nothing was ever resolved through it, and racism certainly isn't going to be resolved that way.
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