This is pretty much what your brother said. Years ago he had a major crush on her..then over the years he's said he definitely doesn't find her as attractive now because of what he's heard her say in interviews and what he's seen in the media with her..not to mention what a few dudes she has dated have all insinuated about her. He said what really precipitated it for him though was Monster's Ball..he said on some level her role in that sickened him. Oddly enough, my husband is the only non-black guy I've heard say that..most non-black guys I've heard say they totally dug her in Monster's Ball..interesting.I thought Halle swore up and down she wasn't going to marry again?
I don't know, but I think she's a troubled soul - very, very attractive, but missing a few screws (like many in Hollywood). I think men are taken with her looks, and after they get up close and personal, they discover there's a raging drama queen underneath that gorgeous body.
Now, I don't get wrapped up in the lives of celebrities, so my thoughts are pure speculation. But just looking at what I've seen in the media, and what I've heard her say in interviews, there's something not quite right about her.
He said for a lot of guys "crazy" cuts way down on the interest in any long term relationship...given most dudes would certainly still be interested in having sex with her. I mean let's not get stupid..she is extremely physically attractive.