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Spent almost $1,000 to go to the US to spend 2 and a half weeks with my boyfriend. Not even a week in I found out he was cheating on me for about half the time we were together(8yrs) with a "friend". Tried to talk it out and he refused to let said friend out of his life and I got my walking papers.

Feeling like **** doesn't cover it.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
That is so awful. I am so sorry ((hugs))
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Spent almost $1,000 to go to the US to spend 2 and a half weeks with my boyfriend. Not even a week in I found out he was cheating on me for about half the time we were together(8yrs) with a "friend". Tried to talk it out and he refused to let said friend out of his life and I got my walking papers.

Feeling like **** doesn't cover it.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
Soleil, I am so sorry! He will get his, rest assured. ((Hugs))

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Spent almost $1,000 to go to the US to spend 2 and a half weeks with my boyfriend. Not even a week in I found out he was cheating on me for about half the time we were together(8yrs) with a "friend". Tried to talk it out and he refused to let said friend out of his life and I got my walking papers.

Feeling like **** doesn't cover it.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
I'm so sorry to hear that.

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Someone I really don't care for is retiring and they are collecting money for a gift. I'm not sure I want to contribute anything to someone who has done me dirty let alone the recommended donation amount being requested. Now we're getting email "reminders". I think I would feel kind if bad if I don't chip in at all so I'm going to throw in 5 bucks to clear my conscience.
Originally Posted by adthomas
Ha that reminds me of this episode of The Unwritten Rules.
the Unwritten Rules: Ep. 10 "I Don't Have Twenty On It" - YouTube

Personally I wouldnt contribute if I really didn't want to. I've been in this situation plenty of times at my old job and after getting tired of wasting my hard earned money on people who didn't give two peas about me, I learned. Life is too long for regrets.

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Originally Posted by CocoT
I remember that episode! LOL
Spent almost $1,000 to go to the US to spend 2 and a half weeks with my boyfriend. Not even a week in I found out he was cheating on me for about half the time we were together(8yrs) with a "friend". Tried to talk it out and he refused to let said friend out of his life and I got my walking papers.

Feeling like **** doesn't cover it.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
How horrible!!! I'm so sorry. People can be jerks sometimes (or all the time in this case)
1.1.12-1.09.13: 54 lbs lost. Yeah I'm behind schedule but I'm still happy
Originally Posted by gagirl09

No that's awesome! Congrats!
Originally Posted by annabananalise
Thanks!!!!
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WTF does "bandz will make her dance" mean?

I hate that my Pandora plays some ratchet a$$ songs sometimes. I thought I put a thumbs down to this song!
Congrats gagirl!!!!!! I lost 30 lbs last year. Not as good as you, but I lost 5 inches in my waist and 5 in my hips. Although my hips still be a good 15 inches wider than my waist. da hell?
WTF does "bandz will make her dance" mean?

I hate that my Pandora plays some ratchet a$$ songs sometimes. I thought I put a thumbs down to this song!
Originally Posted by coilynapp
it means shes a stripper and money will make her dance....because that's what strippers do.

1.1.12-1.09.13: 54 lbs lost. Yeah I'm behind schedule but I'm still happy
Originally Posted by gagirl09
Congrats! Great job!!

I am way behind schedule, but I am 25 lbs away from my goal weight.

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WTF does "bandz will make her dance" mean?

I hate that my Pandora plays some ratchet a$$ songs sometimes. I thought I put a thumbs down to this song!
Originally Posted by coilynapp
it means shes a stripper and money will make her dance....because that's what strippers do.

Originally Posted by murrrcat
LOL. After I posted, I figured it out.

Makes sense...I guess...
Spent almost $1,000 to go to the US to spend 2 and a half weeks with my boyfriend. Not even a week in I found out he was cheating on me for about half the time we were together(8yrs) with a "friend". Tried to talk it out and he refused to let said friend out of his life and I got my walking papers.

Feeling like **** doesn't cover it.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
This is terrible!!!!!! 8yrs is one heck on a commitment. Sounds like u were the only one committed... shoot i couldn't be with a dude that long without the ring. It's for the best, everything happens for a reason and you will see it once the purpose is fulfilled. God bless you with strength.


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Spent almost $1,000 to go to the US to spend 2 and a half weeks with my boyfriend. Not even a week in I found out he was cheating on me for about half the time we were together(8yrs) with a "friend". Tried to talk it out and he refused to let said friend out of his life and I got my walking papers.

Feeling like **** doesn't cover it.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
I'm so sorry. One day he'll wake up and realize he let a good woman get away and he'll regret it. They always miss the water when the well runs dry. It hurts like hell but anyone who would do you like that with a "friend" of all people doesn't respect you. You deserve better. And know that karma will take care of his lying a**.
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Soleil this just proved my men are turds theory.
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WTF does "bandz will make her dance" mean?

I hate that my Pandora plays some ratchet a$$ songs sometimes. I thought I put a thumbs down to this song!
Originally Posted by coilynapp
it means shes a stripper and money will make her dance....because that's what strippers do.

Originally Posted by murrrcat
LOL. After I posted, I figured it out.

Makes sense...I guess...
Originally Posted by coilynapp
I thought it was also referencing women that'll do anything for money. Like in general.

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it means shes a stripper and money will make her dance....because that's what strippers do.

Originally Posted by murrrcat
LOL. After I posted, I figured it out.

Makes sense...I guess...
Originally Posted by coilynapp
I thought it was also referencing women that'll do anything for money. Like in general.

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Originally Posted by CocoT
Probably, they are womanizers lol

But at the beginning juicy j is talking about strippers...whoops I meant rapping LOL and lol Wayne also mentions poles, but it could be a deeper meaning (how deep could you get with this song?) hahaha

And on the versions of the song I heard they say "STRIPPAHS" at the very beginning.
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Spent almost $1,000 to go to the US to spend 2 and a half weeks with my boyfriend. Not even a week in I found out he was cheating on me for about half the time we were together(8yrs) with a "friend". Tried to talk it out and he refused to let said friend out of his life and I got my walking papers.

Feeling like **** doesn't cover it.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
I'm so sorry. One day he'll wake up and realize he let a good woman get away and he'll regret it. They always miss the water when the well runs dry. It hurts like hell but anyone who would do you like that with a "friend" of all people doesn't respect you. You deserve better. And know that karma will take care of his lying a**.
Originally Posted by adthomas
I totally agree. Also God will always make room in your life for what/who you truly need.
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Spent almost $1,000 to go to the US to spend 2 and a half weeks with my boyfriend. Not even a week in I found out he was cheating on me for about half the time we were together(8yrs) with a "friend". Tried to talk it out and he refused to let said friend out of his life and I got my walking papers.

Feeling like **** doesn't cover it.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
I'm so sorry. One day he'll wake up and realize he let a good woman get away and he'll regret it. They always miss the water when the well runs dry. It hurts like hell but anyone who would do you like that with a "friend" of all people doesn't respect you. You deserve better. And know that karma will take care of his lying a**.
Originally Posted by adthomas
I totally agree. Also God will always make room in your life for what/who you truly need.
Originally Posted by ricotdorothy
Amen.

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I'm so sorry. One day he'll wake up and realize he let a good woman get away and he'll regret it. They always miss the water when the well runs dry. It hurts like hell but anyone who would do you like that with a "friend" of all people doesn't respect you. You deserve better. And know that karma will take care of his lying a**.
Originally Posted by adthomas
I totally agree. Also God will always make room in your life for what/who you truly need.
Originally Posted by ricotdorothy
Amen.

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Originally Posted by CocoT
And Hallelujah

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My husband and I are separating! It's totally not a bad thing though. We've been tgt for almost 7 years, since we were 16 and 17 and things just aren't the same. So we're guna take some time and be apart :-)
We had been thinking about the same thing. Since my brother died I have not been the same. And we had a few previous issues that we kinda can't work out together. So....we're just guna do our own thing for a while.
Lucky for me I have a man who's actually a man. So this situation should be pretty cool.
We're basically keeping it to ourselves. Not getting on fb or telling all our friends cuz they wouldn't understand lol. N we don't want ppl in our business

How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
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