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JT should have gotten this guy Suit & Tie - Justin Timberlake Ft. Jay-Z (COVER) by @YoungMarkk - YouTube
instead of J-Z for the rap
Originally Posted by coilynapp

shhhhh I can't hear JT's voice because of him.
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Alrighty. Yep it's official me and the hubs are separated. We ended up kinda randomly talking about it today. While I had a clear mind. And we both think it will be good for us. I know for me I can learn to be dependent on myself completely and he will be able to not worry about taking care of me lol. Cuz he is a worrier sometimes. And we can both focus on our career goals. He's about to take over his dad's business and I'm going into healthcare. So yep. That's that. Now my only decision left is if we are guna continue to have sex until we aren't co habitating. He's gone for work and is only here like once a month so it won't be much of a change....
As of right now though I'm guna say no. I'm paranoid about stds and even though I know there's no way he couldve had sex with anyone recently but me since he's always on the road, my body is starting to reject sex lol....

How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Originally Posted by B-Nessa11
B-Nessa, I am sorry to hear this. But it is good that you both have come to an amicable agreement.
Originally Posted by juanab
Thank you yea we've been tgt since we were teenagers. Luckily it's a mutual thing so no one is getting their heart broken. I hope everything goes the way we want it to! Thanks to everyone for your support yesterday! I totally needed it
How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
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I was friends with a girl who dated her boyfriend since middle school.

They're still together. She broke up with him, one day in high school for an actual 24 hrs, and all she could say was " I don't like being single, I don't know what to do, I've never dated" ...I was like.... you broke up with him less than 5 hours ago, calm down.


Pointless story, but I don't even know how to date. Each date (two) I've been on have ended horribly. I will never date again. As in go on dates, because I've never dated anyone either. My life is a sham, a shazam.
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Listening To Kanye [The Mental Health Files] | Racialicious - the intersection of race and pop culture

As often as Kanye West talks about the state of his mental health, one would think that we’d be having a national conversation on mental health–kind of like the way we had a wave of conversations about domestic violence in the wake of the Chris Brown-Rihanna incident. Yet, in the four years since Kanye began talking openly about the depression related to the death of his mother and the dissolution of his romantic relationship with longtime paramour Alexis Phifer, the conversations have continued to be one-sided.
I never really thought about this but wowwwww.

awww yeezy.
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I have a coworker who is 3a3b but like me usually only wears her curly hair to work on the weekends when few people are around. She came in with curls yesterday. A coworker made a snide comment about needing to do something with her hair. I made a point of telling her her hair was beautiful which it was. Anyway, today in defiance I decided I'll show them some curly. I wore a full big fluffy curly braidout and all the big bosses were in town for a meeting we were having. Suprisingly, I got a lot of compliments and love. I was told by several people including a few management types said they wished I would wear my hair like that more often. Although my direct supervisor remained mum.
Listening To Kanye [The Mental Health Files] | Racialicious - the intersection of race and pop culture

As often as Kanye West talks about the state of his mental health, one would think that we’d be having a national conversation on mental health–kind of like the way we had a wave of conversations about domestic violence in the wake of the Chris Brown-Rihanna incident. Yet, in the four years since Kanye began talking openly about the depression related to the death of his mother and the dissolution of his romantic relationship with longtime paramour Alexis Phifer, the conversations have continued to be one-sided.
I never really thought about this but wowwwww.

awww yeezy.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Yea, because mental illness is stigmatized.

aaww Yeezy, I sowwy

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I was friends with a girl who dated her boyfriend since middle school.

They're still together. She broke up with him, one day in high school for an actual 24 hrs, and all she could say was " I don't like being single, I don't know what to do, I've never dated" ...I was like.... you broke up with him less than 5 hours ago, calm down.


Pointless story, but I don't even know how to date. Each date (two) I've been on have ended horribly. I will never date again. As in go on dates, because I've never dated anyone either. My life is a sham, a shazam.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
I dont' know how to date either. It's a sad state of affairs.

I was in a LTR with my boo from 12-16. He passed away. Then I was single for 7 yrs. Crushed on a few guys, went on ONE date in college which turned out to be horrible. Got in another LTR for 3 yrs, I ended it last year. Still tryna date now. I was flirting with a guy all.the.time I saw him but never made a move, he never made a move (because used to see me with ex--probably thought I was still with him) and he was shy. Anyway, by the time I made a move, he was moving to NY. DA HELL? I'm extremely shy when I'm attracted to someone. It's odd because I'm a super social butterfly. Let me not be attracted to a shy guy (like the moving to NY situation), nothing will ever happen!!!!! GRRRR

I fail. I'm 28. Someone tell me there is hope for me!!! Pweese?
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I was friends with a girl who dated her boyfriend since middle school.

They're still together. She broke up with him, one day in high school for an actual 24 hrs, and all she could say was " I don't like being single, I don't know what to do, I've never dated" ...I was like.... you broke up with him less than 5 hours ago, calm down.


Pointless story, but I don't even know how to date. Each date (two) I've been on have ended horribly. I will never date again. As in go on dates, because I've never dated anyone either. My life is a sham, a shazam.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
I dont' know how to date either. It's a sad state of affairs.

I was in a LTR with my boo from 12-16. He passed away. Then I was single for 7 yrs. Crushed on a few guys, went on ONE date in college which turned out to be horrible. Got in another LTR for 3 yrs, I ended it last year. Still tryna date now. I was flirting with a guy all.the.time I saw him but never made a move, he never made a move (because used to see me with ex--probably thought I was still with him) and he was shy. Anyway, by the time I made a move, he was moving to NY. DA HELL? I'm extremely shy when I'm attracted to someone. It's odd because I'm a super social butterfly. Let me not be attracted to a shy guy (like the moving to NY situation), nothing will ever happen!!!!! GRRRR

I fail. I'm 28. Someone tell me there is hope for me!!! Pweese?
Originally Posted by coilynapp
I'm 27, had one relationship and have been with only that one person for 8 years. We should form a support group

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^^Oh wow, we're the same age. I turn 28 this year (I'm still 27)
^^Oh wow, we're the same age. I turn 28 this year (I'm still 27)
Originally Posted by coilynapp
I turn 28 in November. I feel old and unaccomplished
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I was friends with a girl who dated her boyfriend since middle school.

They're still together. She broke up with him, one day in high school for an actual 24 hrs, and all she could say was " I don't like being single, I don't know what to do, I've never dated" ...I was like.... you broke up with him less than 5 hours ago, calm down.


Pointless story, but I don't even know how to date. Each date (two) I've been on have ended horribly. I will never date again. As in go on dates, because I've never dated anyone either. My life is a sham, a shazam.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
I dont' know how to date either. It's a sad state of affairs.

I was in a LTR with my boo from 12-16. He passed away. Then I was single for 7 yrs. Crushed on a few guys, went on ONE date in college which turned out to be horrible. Got in another LTR for 3 yrs, I ended it last year. Still tryna date now. I was flirting with a guy all.the.time I saw him but never made a move, he never made a move (because used to see me with ex--probably thought I was still with him) and he was shy. Anyway, by the time I made a move, he was moving to NY. DA HELL? I'm extremely shy when I'm attracted to someone. It's odd because I'm a super social butterfly. Let me not be attracted to a shy guy (like the moving to NY situation), nothing will ever happen!!!!! GRRRR

I fail. I'm 28. Someone tell me there is hope for me!!! Pweese?
Originally Posted by coilynapp
I was in a LTR for four years that ended in 2011 if y'all remember. I moved, and kind of dated this guy with the penis piercings if y'all remember. Since that obvs didn't work out and I was still heart broken and a mess, I went on this spree of making out with randoms at bars: for fun or because they'd pay for my cab home. Y'all dating is hard and terrible. I've been out on a lot of dates since Prince Albert and they're usually just so ugh and I hate men.

I've seeing this guy I'm kind of crazy about. We've been dating exclusively for a while, but I hesitate to make it a THING because the last THING I was in ended and I didn't handle it well.

And I'm only 23, but it seems like all of my friends are engaged/married so ofc I feel behind. It makes no sense.
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when will your favs?

Ugh. I don't even want to THINK about dating. The older I get the smaller the dating pool gets and I only want a man who's smart(preferably college educated) so we can have intelligent conversations, 6'0 or taller since I'm 5'10, who likes at least 1 of the following: video games, cartoons, manga and or anime, Doctor Who, can make me laugh, is romantic and doesn't lie or cheat on a significant other. SIMPLE! But noooooo, you would swear I was looking for some sexy vampire warrior instead cause it's just as freaking hard!

Dating is stupid and men are icky
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I was friends with a girl who dated her boyfriend since middle school.

They're still together. She broke up with him, one day in high school for an actual 24 hrs, and all she could say was " I don't like being single, I don't know what to do, I've never dated" ...I was like.... you broke up with him less than 5 hours ago, calm down.


Pointless story, but I don't even know how to date. Each date (two) I've been on have ended horribly. I will never date again. As in go on dates, because I've never dated anyone either. My life is a sham, a shazam.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
I dont' know how to date either. It's a sad state of affairs.

I was in a LTR with my boo from 12-16. He passed away. Then I was single for 7 yrs. Crushed on a few guys, went on ONE date in college which turned out to be horrible. Got in another LTR for 3 yrs, I ended it last year. Still tryna date now. I was flirting with a guy all.the.time I saw him but never made a move, he never made a move (because used to see me with ex--probably thought I was still with him) and he was shy. Anyway, by the time I made a move, he was moving to NY. DA HELL? I'm extremely shy when I'm attracted to someone. It's odd because I'm a super social butterfly. Let me not be attracted to a shy guy (like the moving to NY situation), nothing will ever happen!!!!! GRRRR

I fail. I'm 28. Someone tell me there is hope for me!!! Pweese?
Originally Posted by coilynapp
I was in a LTR for four years that ended in 2011 if y'all remember. I moved, and kind of dated this guy with the penis piercings if y'all remember. Since that obvs didn't work out and I was still heart broken and a mess, I went on this spree of making out with randoms at bars: for fun or because they'd pay for my cab home. Y'all dating is hard and terrible. I've been out on a lot of dates since Prince Albert and they're usually just so ugh and I hate men.

I've seeing this guy I'm kind of crazy about. We've been dating exclusively for a while, but I hesitate to make it a THING because the last THING I was in ended and I didn't handle it well.

And I'm only 23, but it seems like all of my friends are engaged/married so ofc I feel behind. It makes no sense.
Originally Posted by annabananalise
I'm 22 I've been going to bars for free drinks lol. Ur not behind, chicks like me gotta catch up, I'm gettin divorced lol. And so are two of my friends...but they married aholes lol. So take your time


How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
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LUVVV my natural hair!!!
Listening To Kanye [The Mental Health Files] | Racialicious - the intersection of race and pop culture

As often as Kanye West talks about the state of his mental health, one would think that we’d be having a national conversation on mental health–kind of like the way we had a wave of conversations about domestic violence in the wake of the Chris Brown-Rihanna incident. Yet, in the four years since Kanye began talking openly about the depression related to the death of his mother and the dissolution of his romantic relationship with longtime paramour Alexis Phifer, the conversations have continued to be one-sided.
I never really thought about this but wowwwww.

awww yeezy.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Yep. Kanye hasn't been the same since his mom died. It is so sad. I remember hearing the announcement on the radio a few years back. His music changed when he cane out with 808's. It wasn't bad, I liked the album, but you can really tell he made a sharp turn there.

I dont really care about a lot of celebrities lives, but this is on my spirit. I really hope his relationship with Kim K turns out well. I don't know that it will though. Their family is all about business and money.

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As president, I declare we wear pink scrunchies and lipstick on Wednesdays. YAY. Jeans once a week and sweat pants 5 days a week, or more if you feel the need.




I feel like the dating pool is limited at my age because all the guys are immature, and stupid. And in my area barely even good looking. I just be mistaking average joes for sexy now. AND THEN when I see someone sexy, I just lose it.
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As president, I declare we wear pink scrunchies and lipstick on Wednesdays. YAY. Jeans once a week and sweat pants 5 days a week, or more if you feel the need.




I feel like the dating pool is limited at my age because all the guys are immature, and stupid. And in my area barely even good looking. I just be mistaking average joes for sexy now. AND THEN when I see someone sexy, I just lose it.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
You are hilarious. Your posts always make me laugh. You should blog. I wish I was witty.

The dating pool in my COUNTRY is some rubbish. Its truly awful.



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I'm gonna start wearing lipstick everyday :P

Really, I just want to be LOVED. My kind of love where I get kisses on my neck, hugs for no reason, and cuddling but with LOTS of good passionate sex. I wanna be THE woman, the one he needs, when he knows just how good he has it and he's holding onto me for dear life. I'm not looking for a romance novel, just someone who loves and cherishes me.

But until then, men are icky.

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I'm gonna start wearing lipstick everyday :P

Really, I just want to be LOVED. My kind of love where I get kisses on my neck, hugs for no reason, and cuddling but with LOTS of good passionate sex. I wanna be THE woman, the one he needs, when he knows just how good he has it and he's holding onto me for dear life. I'm not looking for a romance novel, just someone who loves and cherishes me.

But until then, men are icky.

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Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
I'm in love with your new found spirit Soleil.

And I agree with everyone , men pretty much suck most of the time.

I am currently seeing someone but its as though, I only find a suitable guy like once in 3 years .
^^seconded. I'm loving your spirit too soleil. Werque that lipstick girl.
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when will your favs?

I'm gonna start wearing lipstick everyday :P

Really, I just want to be LOVED. My kind of love where I get kisses on my neck, hugs for no reason, and cuddling but with LOTS of good passionate sex. I wanna be THE woman, the one he needs, when he knows just how good he has it and he's holding onto me for dear life. I'm not looking for a romance novel, just someone who loves and cherishes me.

But until then, men are icky.

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Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
Soleil, lipstick on you, beautiful!

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