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Old 01-21-2013, 03:29 PM   #19461
 
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Don't respond. He will do that mess. You are quiet and now he is checking up on you instead of the other way around. Such is the way with men who don't know what they want , now that you are not speaking to him he is slowly but surely realizing that you are gone and that will make you seem more attractive. It is just more proof that you are better off w/ someone who will know what you are worth when you are with them, not when you are in the process of moving on. He did not leave a message because he was probing you, testing you out. Now he wants to see if you will call back even if out of curiosity. Don't let him play these games with you. He can't play them with you if you choose not to join in.

When you have had time to heal you will find someone who deserves you. I know it. It happened to me.
It hurt me that he did cause it just opened old wounds. The last time we spoke he straight up told me that we didnt have anything to talk about, I shouldn't care what he does or that he chose his side chick over me and missed her more than me cause I should be moving on and it was none of my business. He was sleeping with someone else for years while I was celibate and faithful while telling me it was fine we weren't intimate.

He doesn't care about what happens to me. And I'm bothered that he's playing these games. I won't be calling, but now I'm hurting again having to think on these things.

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Unfortunately the games may not stop any time soon. I broke up with a guy a year ago for playing games with my emotions. the whole "I want to be with you but I don't" syndrome. I have told him many times not to contact me but he still calls and texts. He uses Merry Christmas, Happy birthday, Happy Mardi Gras or random innocent questions so I feel like the bad guy if I tell him to f off. Anyway yesterday he sent "Miss you" and how it sucks to be away from me. I told him not to say that to me. And he asked me if it bothers me because I still have feelings for him. He said just because he said he misses me doesn't mean he wants me back. Games. It's like he knows I still love him and uses it to hurt me by rubbing salt in the wound. I could never be that cruel. If I didn't want to be with someone I would leave them alone. I can't make him stop contacting me but I decided to send him a text today putting him on notice I will not be responding anymore.
That right there, f-ed my head up. The f^&*^?! Why the f**** you textin' me fo' den? Go the F on!

That is why when an ex texts or calls me, his new name is 'dontrespond' on my phone.

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Old 01-21-2013, 05:26 PM   #19462
 
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I can't imagine what you're going through but shoo I would email him n be like yup I need money. And how much. No convo foreal. Just, you put me n bind so yep I need some dough. Add extra for pain and suffering.
But that would be me being a spiteful Biotch. Use him for a minute lol

How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
i agree with this. Be strong and refrain from talking to him. Email is a good choice. Get him for all his money he owe you more than that.

Just so u know be prepared cus now that the ball is in your court he will be blowing you up. This is all bc you didnt play his games.



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Old 01-21-2013, 06:09 PM   #19464
 
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Um so remember when my car was vandalized coincidentally after I told someone to stop contacting me?

Said person just emailed me omg.

ugh... is this an ex?
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Old 01-21-2013, 06:14 PM   #19465
 
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My fingertips are so sore from removing these yarn braids. Now I am ready to go to bed BUT must stay up until my hair dries so I can trim. I'm doing this CG style.
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Old 01-21-2013, 06:28 PM   #19466
 
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I would say be honest ( I have) because they would know that you are a recent grad with no "real job" salaries in the past. I think its for overqualified applicates who are are used to making more than what the position pays.


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Ok I was honest. I told them what I've made and that now that I'm a graduate seeking more independence, I believe that I'm worth more and I'm willing to negotiate with them. I said it a little smoother than that.lol

But I looked up the salary range for the job I applied for and it is way way more than I anticipated.
I usually SLIGHTLY overstate my income. I don't feel bad about it because really I think it's none of anyone's business if I'm not asking for a handout. They should be willing to pay me what I deserve according to the job requirements and my skills regardless of what I was making before. I figure if I tell them I make a little more then they'll be willing to at least pay me that versus thinking they can work me like a dog for slave wages. It's not like they can go into your financial records or your previous employer is going to tell them. Loan papers, credit card applications, rental agreements ect. I never put my real salary or my real expenses and I've never been turned down for anything.
I will definitely keep this in mind the next time I'm asked. Thanks!

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Um so remember when my car was vandalized coincidentally after I told someone to stop contacting me?

Said person just emailed me omg.

ugh... is this an ex?
Yikes, no. Idk if y'all remember but there was this one girl who made me uncomfortable and I told her to stop contacting me and then like a week later my tires were slashed. I'm not saying, I'm just saying.

Anyway she emailed me and said she needs an editor if I'm done making ish up about her.
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Um so remember when my car was vandalized coincidentally after I told someone to stop contacting me?

Said person just emailed me omg.

ugh... is this an ex?
Yikes, no. Idk if y'all remember but there was this one girl who made me uncomfortable and I told her to stop contacting me and then like a week later my tires were slashed. I'm not saying, I'm just saying.

Anyway she emailed me and said she needs an editor if I'm done making ish up about her.
I remember this. And she is cray!!!
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ugh... is this an ex?
Yikes, no. Idk if y'all remember but there was this one girl who made me uncomfortable and I told her to stop contacting me and then like a week later my tires were slashed. I'm not saying, I'm just saying.

Anyway she emailed me and said she needs an editor if I'm done making ish up about her.
I remember this. And she is cray!!!

That's really cray! Can you report or her something? I would document all this or have you? I don't play with things that cost money, somebody aka her would be paying for my tires and my car getting fixed.
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So I finally got around to trying Giovanni Direct Leave In. Not bad, not bad kind of thick like a rinse out condition and plays well with my UFDCM. Only took me 3 yrs to try it :-)
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I'm gonna start wearing lipstick everyday :P

Really, I just want to be LOVED. My kind of love where I get kisses on my neck, hugs for no reason, and cuddling but with LOTS of good passionate sex. I wanna be THE woman, the one he needs, when he knows just how good he has it and he's holding onto me for dear life. I'm not looking for a romance novel, just someone who loves and cherishes me.

But until then, men are icky.

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Yikes, no. Idk if y'all remember but there was this one girl who made me uncomfortable and I told her to stop contacting me and then like a week later my tires were slashed. I'm not saying, I'm just saying.

Anyway she emailed me and said she needs an editor if I'm done making ish up about her.
I remember this. And she is cray!!!

That's really cray! Can you report or her something? I would document all this or have you? I don't play with things that cost money, somebody aka her would be paying for my tires and my car getting fixed.
Well I can't prove anything. When my car got hurt I called the police but they didn't care/were limited bc of no proof. I didn't hear from her after that until today. And I haven't responded but I saved the email.

Ugh I need a bf who's killed before.
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I've been watching a lot of somebody's watching me (a show about stalking) and the police really can't do much until they harm you or threaten to harm you a certain amount of times. WHICH IS SO LAME.
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Just be careful with that annabananalise, i've been watching "Stalked" on Netflix and um folks is cray cray. Even females being stalked by other females.

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I remember this. And she is cray!!!

That's really cray! Can you report or her something? I would document all this or have you? I don't play with things that cost money, somebody aka her would be paying for my tires and my car getting fixed.
Well I can't prove anything. When my car got hurt I called the police but they didn't care/were limited bc of no proof. I didn't hear from her after that until today. And I haven't responded but I saved the email.

Ugh I need a bf who's killed before.

Ummm, NO?! I know you were kidding, but, uuhhheerrr NO.
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omg HAHAHAH. We're twins.


It's so scary. I thought my creepy ex friend constantly calling me was creepy....omg that show freaks me out. Why are people so creepy. Why can't they take hints.
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Coilynapp I am kidding. I promise. Really really kidding lol

And yeah I know police are useless for stalking until it's practically too late ugh.

I will be careful and I won't engage.
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