The New & Improved Say It I Dare You - Page 978

adthomas · 01-25-2013, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

then told me to remind him in 2 weeks for the rest

He was with you for eight years and he needs a "reminder" to help you out?

Hmmm... maybe it's time you learned to play the game. You could take his calls and emails. Tell after some deep soul searching about the situation you see how much you want him back. you can't live without him even if it means sharing with another woman. After all a piece of man is better than no man. As soon as you get caught up on these bills you're going to book another trip to come see him and get you some of that because can't no put man put it down like he can.

Then when your money comes you tell tha SOB to KYBA!!!

adthomas · 01-25-2013, 09:59 PM

If anyone is interested I saw Pantene's Truly Natural line in Family Dollar the other day. Not CG friendly for me but for those of you who like cones it might be worth a try. The custard's second ingredient is dimethicone, and the cowash has a bis-cone.

soleilmoncur · 01-26-2013, 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Ayedee

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Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

then told me to remind him in 2 weeks for the rest

He was with you for eight years and he needs a "reminder" to help you out?

Hmmm... maybe it's time you learned to play the game. You could take his calls and emails. Tell after some deep soul searching about the situation you see how much you want him back. you can't live without him even if it means sharing with another woman. After all a piece of man is better than no man. As soon as you get caught up on these bills you're going to book another trip to come see him and get you some of that because can't no put man put it down like he can.

Then when your money comes you tell tha SOB to KYBA!!!

Nah. I wouldn't even waste my time. And because I still have feelings for him I would get caught up. I can't wait until I'm over and done with him.

soleilmoncur · 01-26-2013, 05:18 AM

Meeting a guy I met online today for tea and cakes at a famous Parisian tea shop.

Lipstick!

Calber · 01-26-2013, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

Meeting a guy I met online today for tea and cakes at a famous Parisian tea shop.

I've been following with your story, and I say good for you getting back out there! Just have fun girl. Looking good too!

ricotdorothy · 01-26-2013, 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

Meeting a guy I met online today for tea and cakes at a famous Parisian tea shop.

Lipstick!

You are too beautiful for what you have been through! I am telling you evil only leaves your life to make room for the good!

applesandafros · 01-26-2013, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

I have a question. Is height a necessary qualifier for a SO or is it a preference that can be ignored?

I do prefer taller guys. I'm only 5'4" so it's not too hard. But if he did have everything else and was a little on the short side. It wouldn't be a deal breaker.

coilynapp · 01-27-2013, 01:03 AM

Soleil, you are gorgeous!!!

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Calber · 01-27-2013, 03:15 AM

What the hey?! I'm JUST getting over this 4a-c nonsense, when I (by a miserable accident) came accross 5a-c!! People what is going on?????

soleilmoncur · 01-27-2013, 05:58 AM

Yesterday was a lot of fun! We met and we're the same height but he's 5 years older than I am, white French, with 2 Master degrees in cryptology and physics(Ph.d in progress), reserved, and completely different from my preferences in men. We had tea and cakes, and stayed so long just talking that the waiter gave us our bill before we asked for it(which is a french faux pas). We're going out for dinner next week Friday and I'm actually looking forward to it and getting to know him more. He actually agrees with my analysis that Batman can defeat Superman

But I am NOT ready for a relationship at all. I'm still in love with my ex, and I'm still deeply hurt and damaged by everything he has done to me. Because of our recent contact I'm looking for him to communicate with me and I still think of him and the other girl, and that it hurts because he didn't want me. I've made progress in the last few weeks, but it's not enough. It wouldn't be fair to me or anyone in the future if I'm carrying the baggage of his betrayal. In the meantime I'm happy just meeting new people and opening myself up to something new.

gagirl09 · 01-27-2013, 06:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Calber

What the hey?! I'm JUST getting over this 4a-c nonsense, when I (by a miserable accident) came accross 5a-c!! People what is going on?????

WHAT??? ok seriously if this category business is coming down to this, we just need to Fat boy, little boy these classifications. Absolutely ridiculous. People acting waaaay to thirsty.

Calber · 01-27-2013, 07:38 AM

WHAT??? ok seriously if this category business is coming down to this, we just need to Fat boy, little boy these classifications. Absolutely ridiculous. People acting waaaay to thirsty.[/QUOTE]

Amen to that!

Calber · 01-27-2013, 07:42 AM

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Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

Yesterday was a lot of fun! We met and we're the same height but he's 5 years older than I am, white French, with 2 Master degrees in cryptology and physics(Ph.d in progress), reserved, and completely different from my preferences in men. We had tea and cakes, and stayed so long just talking that the waiter gave us our bill before we asked for it(which is a french faux pas). We're going out for dinner next week Friday and I'm actually looking forward to it and getting to know him more. He actually agrees with my analysis that Batman can defeat Superman

But I am NOT ready for a relationship at all. I'm still in love with my ex, and I'm still deeply hurt and damaged by everything he has done to me. Because of our recent contact I'm looking for him to communicate with me and I still think of him and the other girl, and that it hurts because he didn't want me. I've made progress in the last few weeks, but it's not enough. It wouldn't be fair to me or anyone in the future if I'm carrying the baggage of his betrayal. In the meantime I'm happy just meeting new people and opening myself up to something new.

Sounds like positive thinking to me and I hope that all will continue to go well with your healing process. Just by getting up and going out means that you are not at home wallowing in misery. Chin up kiddo 😊

gagirl09 · 01-27-2013, 09:14 AM

Well d-mn. Rock on keep that negativity out of here.

adthomas · 01-27-2013, 01:38 PM

Soleil, I am drooling all over your hair. Those pics you put up are absolutely beautiful. Thanks for representing us naturals so wonderfully over in France.

adthomas · 01-27-2013, 01:41 PM

I decided to rock my hair big, curly and wild at the Mardi Gras parade yesterday. I got a lot of compliments.

On, another note I noticed when I got on my computer there were 408 people viewing 4a. Wow!! We haven't had numbers like that in a long time.

CocoT · 01-27-2013, 02:02 PM

I'm so frustrated!!! Call me back already or schedule another time to call me. I can't take this ghost style communication. Playing with my emotions and stuff.

adthomas · 01-27-2013, 02:32 PM

OH, NO SHE DIDN'T!!!!

I'm about to go straight 4a up in here. Somebody hold my earrings and hand me a pony tail holder so I can pull my hair back.

EllyEllyOxenFree · 01-27-2013, 02:34 PM

Oh goodness!

gagirl09 · 01-27-2013, 07:12 PM

SNAP!!