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Tomorrow is a new month and it made me want to really start a new chapter in my life. January was horrible for me and while I will still be getting over my ex next month, I feel like I could be happier, whereas 3 weeks ago I wasn't even sure I could go on. Thanks to all the support here and from my friends, I've realized through a lot of looking within myself these last few weeks that I have a lot of work to do on me. Not because I was cheated on so there must be something wrong with me, but because I was filling gaps and holes in my spirit and my life with another person. I wasn't strong enough to let go of someone that was hurting me because he made me feel special and beautiful, and I needed him to validate me and now I'm suffering. He's still an a$$hole who thinks that this whole thing was "best for me" but maybe I needed this to see what I was truly missing and need in my life. Me.

These are a list of stuff I want to do. I won't complete it in the next month but it would make me happy and I haven't been making ME happy in a long time.

Really master my French
Travel to Germany, Ireland, Amsterdam, London
Learn to play the guitar
Learn to paint and draw
Buy a new pair of heels
Buy a new bag
Buy a new Smartphone
Get into University
Wear more makeup
Start exercising regularly
Go out every weekend and interact
Meet more people
Find a 2nd job and create a savings plan
Get over that douchebag

I know there will be days, like today, when I just want to cry and stay in bed. When I want to call him and beg for him back(yuck). But I know I'm getting better and it excites me to be excited for the future.

Here's to tomorrow!!!
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
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Tomorrow....

These are a list of stuff I want to do. I won't complete it in the next month but it would make me happy and I haven't been making ME happy in a long time.

Really master my French
Travel to Germany, Ireland, Amsterdam, London
Learn to play the guitar
Learn to paint and draw
Buy a new pair of heels
Buy a new bag
Buy a new Smartphone
Get into University
Wear more makeup
Start exercising regularly
Go out every weekend and interact
Meet more people
Find a 2nd job and create a savings plan
Get over that douchebag

I know there will be days, like today, when I just want to cry and stay in bed. When I want to call him and beg for him back(yuck). But I know I'm getting better and it excites me to be excited for the future.

Here's to tomorrow!!!
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
Hang in there, it will get better. I promise! Besides when you are traveling around in Europe, you could always put Norway on your places to visit. Would be nice meeting a curly from NC 😁
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Scandal!!!
Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds

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Ohhhhh weeeee, Scandal is right!


***SCANDAL SPOILER*****SO West Coast peeps beware!!!

I am going to call this right now. There are more than two men in love with Olivia Pope. At first I did not understand that look Harrison was giving old Edison when he first came to the office to ask for help w/ Liv, until that scene where Harrison holds Liv's hand.

Harrison looked at old Edison like he was the embodiment of a weak a*$ man, the type that cannot live up to being a true partner for a women like Liv. Anything Liv asks Harrison to do, he does, no questions asked. It will be interesting to see if Shonda develops this.
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James Baldwin
A Talk To Teachers
[...]
one of the paradoxes of education [is] that precisely at the point when you begin to develop a conscience, you must find yourself at war with your society. It is your responsibility to change society
[...]

I'm all late but congrats on the job Coily!
Originally Posted by Nappy_curly_crown
Thank you!!!

*I'm going, going, back, back to CALI CALI* YAY!
No spoilers in this thread please!!!!! NONE!!!!!!
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No spoilers in this thread please!!!!! NONE!!!!!!
Originally Posted by coilynapp

How much longer do you have CP, an hour or so? My friend in Cali is also waiting...why don't they just air it at 7?
James Baldwin
A Talk To Teachers
[...]
one of the paradoxes of education [is] that precisely at the point when you begin to develop a conscience, you must find yourself at war with your society. It is your responsibility to change society
[...]

No spoilers in this thread please!!!!! NONE!!!!!!
Originally Posted by coilynapp

How much longer do you have CP, an hour or so? My friend in Cali is also waiting...why don't they just air it at 7?
Originally Posted by cocodej
I think it airs at 10 here. I usually watch it the next day on hulu plus.
No spoilers in this thread please!!!!! NONE!!!!!!
Originally Posted by coilynapp

How much longer do you have CP, an hour or so? My friend in Cali is also waiting...why don't they just air it at 7?
Originally Posted by cocodej
I think it airs at 10 here. I usually watch it the next day on hulu plus.
Originally Posted by coilynapp
You have more will power than me!!! You should have seen me sprint to the television when I noticed the clock read 10:01! It's not a game.
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James Baldwin
A Talk To Teachers
[...]
one of the paradoxes of education [is] that precisely at the point when you begin to develop a conscience, you must find yourself at war with your society. It is your responsibility to change society
[...]

Ohhhhh weeeee, Scandal is right!


***SCANDAL SPOILER*****SO West Coast peeps beware!!!

I am going to call this right now. There are more than two men in love with Olivia Pope. At first I did not understand that look Harrison was giving old Edison when he first came to the office to ask for help w/ Liv, until that scene where Harrison holds Liv's hand.

Harrison looked at old Edison like he was the embodiment of a weak a*$ man, the type that cannot live up to being a true partner for a women like Liv. Anything Liv asks Harrison to do, he does, no questions asked. It will be interesting to see if Shonda develops this.
Originally Posted by cocodej
I was thinking that as well. Harrison got a thang for Olivia. The way they looked at each other...yo. That was kind of intense. Maybe I'm reading too far into it though. It could be nothing.

But I just thought of something. Didn't he and Quinn have a close relationship as well? You think that could complicate things between him and Olivia (potentially)?
Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds

-Albert Einstein
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Tomorrow is a new month and it made me want to really start a new chapter in my life. January was horrible for me and while I will still be getting over my ex next month, I feel like I could be happier, whereas 3 weeks ago I wasn't even sure I could go on. Thanks to all the support here and from my friends, I've realized through a lot of looking within myself these last few weeks that I have a lot of work to do on me. Not because I was cheated on so there must be something wrong with me, but because I was filling gaps and holes in my spirit and my life with another person. I wasn't strong enough to let go of someone that was hurting me because he made me feel special and beautiful, and I needed him to validate me and now I'm suffering. He's still an a$$hole who thinks that this whole thing was "best for me" but maybe I needed this to see what I was truly missing and need in my life. Me.

These are a list of stuff I want to do. I won't complete it in the next month but it would make me happy and I haven't been making ME happy in a long time.

Really master my French
Travel to Germany, Ireland, Amsterdam, London
Learn to play the guitar
Learn to paint and draw
Buy a new pair of heels
Buy a new bag
Buy a new Smartphone
Get into University
Wear more makeup
Start exercising regularly
Go out every weekend and interact
Meet more people
Find a 2nd job and create a savings plan
Get over that douchebag

I know there will be days, like today, when I just want to cry and stay in bed. When I want to call him and beg for him back(yuck). But I know I'm getting better and it excites me to be excited for the future.

Here's to tomorrow!!!
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
These are great goals. I wish i lived in france i have always wanted to travel but never been financially able. I especially always want to visit London (ahhhhh!) I commend u for doing it. Hey u never know who u might meet
Remember although tom is a new month u may revisit sad thoughts and its okay as long as u remember that the next day u can start over new.


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Tomorrow is a new month and it made me want to really start a new chapter in my life. January was horrible for me and while I will still be getting over my ex next month, I feel like I could be happier, whereas 3 weeks ago I wasn't even sure I could go on. Thanks to all the support here and from my friends, I've realized through a lot of looking within myself these last few weeks that I have a lot of work to do on me. Not because I was cheated on so there must be something wrong with me, but because I was filling gaps and holes in my spirit and my life with another person. I wasn't strong enough to let go of someone that was hurting me because he made me feel special and beautiful, and I needed him to validate me and now I'm suffering. He's still an a$$hole who thinks that this whole thing was "best for me" but maybe I needed this to see what I was truly missing and need in my life. Me.

These are a list of stuff I want to do. I won't complete it in the next month but it would make me happy and I haven't been making ME happy in a long time.

Really master my French
Travel to Germany, Ireland, Amsterdam, London
Learn to play the guitar
Learn to paint and draw
Buy a new pair of heels
Buy a new bag
Buy a new Smartphone
Get into University
Wear more makeup
Start exercising regularly
Go out every weekend and interact
Meet more people
Find a 2nd job and create a savings plan
Get over that douchebag

I know there will be days, like today, when I just want to cry and stay in bed. When I want to call him and beg for him back(yuck). But I know I'm getting better and it excites me to be excited for the future.

Here's to tomorrow!!!
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
These are great goals. I wish i lived in france i have always wanted to travel but never been financially able. I especially always want to visit London (ahhhhh!) I commend u for doing it. Hey u never know who u might meet
Remember although tom is a new month u may revisit sad thoughts and its okay as long as u remember that the next day u can start over new.


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Originally Posted by dee-nature
Yup. I woke up this morning thinking that this month has Valentines Day and his new gf's birthday. Hurray

But I've been thinking about starting to paint and moving on with positive thoughts. No more moping for me.
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Tomorrow....

These are a list of stuff I want to do. I won't complete it in the next month but it would make me happy and I haven't been making ME happy in a long time.

Really master my French
Travel to Germany, Ireland, Amsterdam, London
Learn to play the guitar
Learn to paint and draw
Buy a new pair of heels
Buy a new bag
Buy a new Smartphone
Get into University
Wear more makeup
Start exercising regularly
Go out every weekend and interact
Meet more people
Find a 2nd job and create a savings plan
Get over that douchebag

I know there will be days, like today, when I just want to cry and stay in bed. When I want to call him and beg for him back(yuck). But I know I'm getting better and it excites me to be excited for the future.

Here's to tomorrow!!!
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
Hang in there, it will get better. I promise! Besides when you are traveling around in Europe, you could always put Norway on your places to visit. Would be nice meeting a curly from NC 😁
Originally Posted by Calber
Norway sounds fun! Where do you live in the country? I definitely like the idea of meeting someone from NC
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C'mon y'all. SCANDAL talk in the thread, not here
Anyone ever find a sibling or other relative through social media?
Originally Posted by my3curlies

Omg yes. My two sisters on my dad's side found us through facebook. Our aunt lied n said she hadn't seen us since 97 (lie), that we have our dad's last name (lie), and that our mom didn't want us to have anything to with that side of the family. Total lie. Anyway, they finally looked us up by our mom's last name and found us
How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Originally Posted by B-Nessa11
I found my sister about 7 years ago but she would never respond to me so I let it go. Now I found out one of my cousins on my moms side is pretty close to her and her family and he wants me to reach out to her again. I want to but I feel like she isn't interested.
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I don't like Black History Month.

I mean--I really don't like Black History Month.
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I don't like Black History Month.

I mean--I really don't like Black History Month.
Originally Posted by annabananalise
Why?

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I guess I just feel like it's an excuse to ignore black history or the history and contributions of poc for the rest of the year.

Like there's american history, then there's black history. It's never taught concurrently and just gives me an extra feeling of othering.

Plus when I was in school we always learned the same stuff every year. Like black people and black history is more than civil rights and peanut butter. Theres politics, literature, art, science and stuff. And if you gave us a whole year and included us in the rest of American history then kids in school would learn that.

Ugh. Sorry. /rant
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I guess I just feel like it's an excuse to ignore black history or the history and contributions of poc for the rest of the year.

Like there's american history, then there's black history. It's never taught concurrently and just gives me an extra feeling of othering.

Plus when I was in school we always learned the same stuff every year. Like black people and black history is more than civil rights and peanut butter. Theres politics, literature, art, science and stuff. And if you gave us a whole year and included us in the rest of American history then kids in school would learn that.

Ugh. Sorry. /rant
Originally Posted by annabananalise
I never did understand the concept of black history month. But then again, I'm not American :|
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