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am I the only nosey one who always wonders who guide 22 is

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Originally Posted by naturaldoll
Nope!
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I understand that not everyone loves hair in the 4 category. That's their right. I love my 4 hair, especially since I've now gotten to know it for the first time after some 20 odd years of relaxing it.
What I don't understand is why Aunty has to be up in my face demanding that I "creme" it soon??!! 😳

It has probably escaped her notice, that I am soon 35yrs, I'm married and have two kids. I might add that my husband and two sons love my hair and find it shockingly amusing the things my type of hair can do! Sooo Aunty, what's your problem???
I have to shower in order to wake up properly in the mornings
My husband and I are going to work things out

How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Originally Posted by B-Nessa11
Its so easy to take the easy way out glad yall decided to take the hard road and make it work. I am so happy for you ,let this experience bring u closer than ever

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Originally Posted by dee-nature
Thanks. We said we are going to start over n work on being friends. Idk how exactly we guna do that though.

One of our "friends" told him I met a guy at the bar n that I was flirting. So I was mad because that wasn't her business to tell. So I decided I'm not going to be her friend anymore. I textd her n told her to call me, shes like "If u wana talk come over cuz I'm not doing this phone thing." I'm confused as to why she so hostile. She says quit playing mind games u know what's going on and so do i.

So me, for one, I'm not about to waste my gas for a conversation that I don't know anything about. Two, idk what she would have so much to say about. I asked my husband if he told her that I knew about spilling the beans about meeting a dude n he says no. All he said is that we are guna kinda separate and start over as friends n that he feels less stressed. He said all she said was that she needed to talk to me.

So now I'm super curious right. But I don't wana ride to somebodys house n there be a confrontation cuz I'm too grown for that. I don't think he would lie for some reason n say he didn't mention to her, cuz common sense would tell u that the beans are spilled. But I find it funny that she is so weird. Esp to say we both know what's "going on" lol.

Maybe she thinks I'm having an affair or something-Wrong lol. And even if she thought so, how is that her business? Now we been knowing her a LONG time and at one point she was one of my closest friends. But I put her at a ten foot pole last year cuz she was talkin sh*t about me to a mutual friend. She would be the very last person to know if I had anything going. It's only recently that we started hanging out every now n then.
I dunno. I kinda wana know where her head is at n see what she talkin bout. Just so I can tell her about herself. What do you guys think?

How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Who's My Hair?
3c/4a-b looking stuff lol
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Why I chopped: heat damage/breakage
Luv'd my permed hair I just didnt take care of it.
LUVVV my natural hair!!!
I thought you did meet a guy at a bar once?


I don't know, if she's friends with both of y'all and she knows that, that sucks for her. That is why I don't make friends, because I don't want to see things and feel like if I don't tell someone something I'm wrong but if I hold the information and tell no one , I'm wrong still.
I thought you did meet a guy at a bar once?


I don't know, if she's friends with both of y'all and she knows that, that sucks for her. That is why I don't make friends, because I don't want to see things and feel like if I don't tell someone something I'm wrong but if I hold the information and tell no one , I'm wrong still.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Yea I met a guy. But I stopped talking to him a long time ago. Soon after I met him. The thing that I realized with her tho is she's a snake. Cuz she didnt tell me she told him almost as soon as I told her. This is when weren't going to get back tgt. N I just said I textd him for a min n that's it. N then I told her to call me the other day n she responded all hostile like. I'm like huh? Lol. Idk. I think her friendship with me is kinda a front. Cuz a real friend woulda left me tellin him up to me, considering its MY husband she's telling. Or made it known that she's concerned in some way. I just decided I'm guna let her go. I don't need any additional drama. N her so called friendship always seems to cause a problem between me and mine. That's deff not the role a mutual friend is supposed to have
ETA she doesn't know of anything that went on or coulda went on btween me n that guy. N there's no way she could.
How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Who's My Hair?
3c/4a-b looking stuff lol
BC- May 16, 2010
Why I chopped: heat damage/breakage
Luv'd my permed hair I just didnt take care of it.
LUVVV my natural hair!!!

Last edited by B-Nessa11; 02-11-2013 at 03:32 PM.
so you really just posted on your facebook "no more nappy hair" with a freshly laid relaxer.
I thought you did meet a guy at a bar once?


I don't know, if she's friends with both of y'all and she knows that, that sucks for her. That is why I don't make friends, because I don't want to see things and feel like if I don't tell someone something I'm wrong but if I hold the information and tell no one , I'm wrong still.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Yea I met a guy. But I stopped talking to him a long time ago. Soon after I met him. The thing that I realized with her tho is she's a snake. Cuz she didnt tell me she told him almost as soon as I told her. This is when weren't going to get back tgt. N I just said I textd him for a min n that's it. N then I told her to call me the other day n she responded all hostile like. I'm like huh? Lol. Idk. I think her friendship with me is kinda a front. Cuz a real friend woulda left me tellin him up to me, considering its MY husband she's telling. Or made it known that she's concerned in some way. I just decided I'm guna let her go. I don't need any additional drama. N her so called friendship always seems to cause a problem between me and mine. That's deff not the role a mutual friend is supposed to have
ETA she doesn't know of anything that went on or coulda went on btween me n that guy. N there's no way she could.
How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Originally Posted by B-Nessa11
maybe she wants your husband???
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had a doctors appointment, she really doesnt think ill make it to my due date. she says everything is basically ready at this point, we're just waiting on the baby to want out. she said not to be shocked if I go in labor this week. is it wierd im hoping for valentines day? she also said the baby is measuring small (only 5 lbs, 17 inches) so labor should be pretty easy. I guess 9 months of pukeing at the thought of food has a upside afterall

if all goes well ill have my family's first vaginal delivery in almost 60 years first breastfed kid, too.

I cant wait to see my girls personality. her first sonogram, she actually seemed to be posing for us, she faced straight ahead with one hand behind her head, and one hand on her hip. at 20 weeks. if that dont scream attitude, I dont know what does, lol. all my facebook friends got a kick out of it.

I hope im good at being a mom. I dont really feel like a adult, I know on paper im 25 and grown, but inside I still feel kid-ish, so me as a momma is a strange thought. I hope to god I dont mess this up. and what am I gonna do if she dont like me?

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I thought you did meet a guy at a bar once?


I don't know, if she's friends with both of y'all and she knows that, that sucks for her. That is why I don't make friends, because I don't want to see things and feel like if I don't tell someone something I'm wrong but if I hold the information and tell no one , I'm wrong still.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Yea I met a guy. But I stopped talking to him a long time ago. Soon after I met him. The thing that I realized with her tho is she's a snake. Cuz she didnt tell me she told him almost as soon as I told her. This is when weren't going to get back tgt. N I just said I textd him for a min n that's it. N then I told her to call me the other day n she responded all hostile like. I'm like huh? Lol. Idk. I think her friendship with me is kinda a front. Cuz a real friend woulda left me tellin him up to me, considering its MY husband she's telling. Or made it known that she's concerned in some way. I just decided I'm guna let her go. I don't need any additional drama. N her so called friendship always seems to cause a problem between me and mine. That's deff not the role a mutual friend is supposed to have
ETA she doesn't know of anything that went on or coulda went on btween me n that guy. N there's no way she could.
How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Originally Posted by B-Nessa11
maybe she wants your husband???
Originally Posted by hippychic
That's what I think honestly. If not physically, she would look at him as a financial benefit. He is very reliable money wise. So I wouldn't be surprised if she did. I hope she knows better than to let it come out

How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Who's My Hair?
3c/4a-b looking stuff lol
BC- May 16, 2010
Why I chopped: heat damage/breakage
Luv'd my permed hair I just didnt take care of it.
LUVVV my natural hair!!!
had a doctors appointment, she really doesnt think ill make it to my due date. she says everything is basically ready at this point, we're just waiting on the baby to want out. she said not to be shocked if I go in labor this week. is it wierd im hoping for valentines day? she also said the baby is measuring small (only 5 lbs, 17 inches) so labor should be pretty easy. I guess 9 months of pukeing at the thought of food has a upside afterall

if all goes well ill have my family's first vaginal delivery in almost 60 years first breastfed kid, too.

I cant wait to see my girls personality. her first sonogram, she actually seemed to be posing for us, she faced straight ahead with one hand behind her head, and one hand on her hip. at 20 weeks. if that dont scream attitude, I dont know what does, lol. all my facebook friends got a kick out of it.

I hope im good at being a mom. I dont really feel like a adult, I know on paper im 25 and grown, but inside I still feel kid-ish, so me as a momma is a strange thought. I hope to god I dont mess this up. and what am I gonna do if she dont like me?

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Originally Posted by naturaldoll
Girl your baby is going to LOVE YOU! I was 21 when my sugar was born and I felt a little unprepared and nervous. But once she comes you will have all the instincts you need. And breastfeeding is going to bond you to her more.

And btw don't let NOBODY tell u how much to hold your baby. Ppl talk about a baby being spoiled. No such thing. She's been INSIDE u this whole time, it's natural and healthy for her to be all up under u. I know my daughter was!
How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Who's My Hair?
3c/4a-b looking stuff lol
BC- May 16, 2010
Why I chopped: heat damage/breakage
Luv'd my permed hair I just didnt take care of it.
LUVVV my natural hair!!!
had a doctors appointment, she really doesnt think ill make it to my due date. she says everything is basically ready at this point, we're just waiting on the baby to want out. she said not to be shocked if I go in labor this week. is it wierd im hoping for valentines day? she also said the baby is measuring small (only 5 lbs, 17 inches) so labor should be pretty easy. I guess 9 months of pukeing at the thought of food has a upside afterall

if all goes well ill have my family's first vaginal delivery in almost 60 years first breastfed kid, too.

I cant wait to see my girls personality. her first sonogram, she actually seemed to be posing for us, she faced straight ahead with one hand behind her head, and one hand on her hip. at 20 weeks. if that dont scream attitude, I dont know what does, lol. all my facebook friends got a kick out of it.

I hope im good at being a mom. I dont really feel like a adult, I know on paper im 25 and grown, but inside I still feel kid-ish, so me as a momma is a strange thought. I hope to god I dont mess this up. and what am I gonna do if she dont like me?

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Originally Posted by naturaldoll

shes going to freaking adore you. once she smells you, and you have that mommy scent its ALL over, Wait until you smell her feet. MAN the love is going to choke you up.

I was scared silly at 19 that my son wouldnt like me. Now hes 14 and the love of my life.
People who say don't spoil the baby, you're spoiling the baby when you hold it too much etc etc need to be punched in the throat, sorry not sorry. That's stupider than stupider on stupid pills. I hate when I hear people say that.
People who say don't spoil the baby, you're spoiling the baby when you hold it too much etc etc need to be punched in the throat, sorry not sorry. That's stupider than stupider on stupid pills. I hate when I hear people say that.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Indeed

How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Who's My Hair?
3c/4a-b looking stuff lol
BC- May 16, 2010
Why I chopped: heat damage/breakage
Luv'd my permed hair I just didnt take care of it.
LUVVV my natural hair!!!
welp im seeing blood and freaking out called the doctor and she said wait a hour for the baby to wake up and start kicking. if she dont, come in.

called papi at work panicing, he said wait a hour and if im still bleeding he'll come home.

called my sister for moral support no answer, im flipping scared and no ones here to calm me down

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you can't just go to the hospital? are you in pain?

My sil was bleeding and was in pain and they had to do an emergency c-section. She was perfectly fine the day before too.
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That's so scary naturaldoll. I agree with murr, if you're able to get to the hospital then I say go now especially since you're alone and freaked out.
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you can't just go to the hospital? are you in pain?

My sil was bleeding and was in pain and they had to do an emergency c-section. She was perfectly fine the day before too.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
no pain, just the blood. the doctor said to wait, it might be labor beginning. so far im just suppose to wait and see if there is any change, or the baby feels like moving and letting us all know shes still alive.


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you can't just go to the hospital? are you in pain?

My sil was bleeding and was in pain and they had to do an emergency c-section. She was perfectly fine the day before too.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
no pain, just the blood. the doctor said to wait, it might be labor beginning. so far im just suppose to wait and see if there is any change, or the baby feels like moving and letting us all know shes still alive.


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Originally Posted by naturaldoll
well i don't want to scare you but if you feel some pain go to the hospital, The baby might be in distress, I was with my sil when she had her baby thats why I know so much.

I mean I was legit with her because my brother is in the military he was like in a field somewhere, I had to take her, I had to take her nail polish off while they prepped her and everything, I had to talk to the doctors LOL. It was the most traumatic experience of my young life.
the babys moving!! and now instead of bright red im only seeing a little bit of brown, thank god.

jeebus that is too dawggone much excitement for me first thing in the morning

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Yay!! ^^^
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