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Two prescriptions for a grand total of $7.60? Is this the real life? Wow, I'm so used to not having insurance or having really crappy insurance and having to pay through the nose for every stupid thing that I'm in utter disbelief.
Cried on the phone to my best friend after I woke up from an emotional nightmare about my ex and found out this morning that him and the girl he left me for are linked up on facebook. I question why he chose to stand with her instead of me, was I not good enough, was everything I gave for 8 years not worthy, how could he just let me go like this, why is this so unfair? Just when I think I'll be okay I get a wrecking ball to my emotions.
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Cried on the phone to my best friend after I woke up from an emotional nightmare about my ex and found out this morning that him and the girl he left me for are linked up on facebook. I question why he chose to stand with her instead of me, was I not good enough, was everything I gave for 8 years not worthy, how could he just let me go like this, why is this so unfair? Just when I think I'll be okay I get a wrecking ball to my emotions.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
Do you have a journal? You should be writing all of these accounts there instead of here. I'm not trying to be mean but these are very personal thoughts & some questions only you can answer for yourself. I really believe that when a bond between two people is broken its for the better. I have spent whole seasons of my life with people cut off from me. No communication because they wronged me in some way. I decide who appreciates me for me & I stick to those individuals.

Try not doubting yourself. Get deeply involved with loving & living for you. That other woman is not thinking about you. Your ex is moving on. He may check on you because he if generally & genuinely concerned for your emotional health. But not enough to sacrifice his own happiness & get back together. I think you need to understand that. I think you need to stop doubting yourself & trying to find out what went wrong. Its in the past. Leave it there. Hakuna Matata. You are alive, healthy, beautiful, & strong. Do you queen, & you'll run into a king when you least expect it.

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Well said ss40!

How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
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BC- May 16, 2010
Why I chopped: heat damage/breakage
Luv'd my permed hair I just didnt take care of it.
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Sorry. I just needed some advice and a few good words. I didn't want to feel like I was going through this alone. Sorry again.
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Sorry. I just needed some advice and a few good words. I didn't want to feel like I was going through this alone. Sorry again.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
If u need advice its good that you're lookin for it. I think she just meant to say that sometimes the best answers come from inside. I dont think you need to be sorry. I think you're going to have your ups and downs with this situation but from what I've read, overall you're dealing with it just as well as anyone else. Just keep your head up girl! Things will get better

How can I say goodbye P.L.G.
Who's My Hair?
3c/4a-b looking stuff lol
BC- May 16, 2010
Why I chopped: heat damage/breakage
Luv'd my permed hair I just didnt take care of it.
LUVVV my natural hair!!!
Sorry. I just needed some advice and a few good words. I didn't want to feel like I was going through this alone. Sorry again.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
No apologies are necessary. You are not alone. There are whole threads dedicated to relationships on NC so you are more than welcome to solicit advice. B-Nessa hit the nail on the head. You have to anger some of these questions internally. We can give advice all day long but you know your heart & soul. I also would like you to know that some of these threads show up on google searches. If you are dealing with a grimy
person & they know your screen name you are exposing yourself. Be mindful of that also.

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About my hair:
weekly shampoo-HE Honey I'm Strong
daily conditioner-HE Honey I'm Strong (use as li)
go to style-Pocahontas braids
Sorry. I just needed some advice and a few good words. I didn't want to feel like I was going through this alone. Sorry again.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
I have have been comforted by sharing my life's rough patches ( my job) on this board. It really did help me to get support, kind words, perspectives, and advice from the ladies here. Sometimes it's nice to have a journal that talks back! Lol ( although I will admit that I have seen some members throw other's misfortune back into their face down the line....just a warning for oversharing if you are sensitive to that sort of thing).
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Sorry. I just needed some advice and a few good words. I didn't want to feel like I was going through this alone. Sorry again.
Originally Posted by soleilmoncur
No apologies are necessary. You are not alone. There are whole threads dedicated to relationships on NC so you are more than welcome to solicit advice. B-Nessa hit the nail on the head. You have to anger some of these questions internally. We can give advice all day long but you know your heart & soul. I also would like you to know that some of these threads show up on google searches. If you are dealing with a grimy
person & they know your screen name you are exposing yourself. Be mindful of that also.

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Originally Posted by ss40

Ahh, agreed! Maintaining your privacy is very important. You can also do image searches with Google so if you have posted any pictures here that you also have on another site you are easier to find as well. The lengths people will go to for snooping are around the world and back!
Why did some random guy correct my spelling on facebook? I hate when people do that. It is such a d-bag thing to do. I don't know you, you don't know me, and we only have this one friend in common whose post I am posting on. Then you're this frat looking guy that seems like one of those a-holes who claims racism doesn't exist anymore, when you're drunk try to rub up against a black girl and say how you think all of us are beautiful, and try to act down in front of black people popmpous prick! Whew! I needed to get that off my chest. I am being a little sensitive right now.
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Why did some random guy correct my spelling on facebook? I hate when people do that. It is such a d-bag thing to do. I don't know you, you don't know me, and we only have this one friend in common whose post I am posting on. Then you're this frat looking guy that seems like one of those a-holes who claims racism doesn't exist anymore, when you're drunk try to rub up against a black girl and say how you think all of us are beautiful, and try to act down in front of black people popmpous prick! Whew! I needed to get that off my chest. I am being a little sensitive right now.
Originally Posted by gagirl09
Are you in Athens?

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go to style-Pocahontas braids
Why did some random guy correct my spelling on facebook? I hate when people do that. It is such a d-bag thing to do. I don't know you, you don't know me, and we only have this one friend in common whose post I am posting on. Then you're this frat looking guy that seems like one of those a-holes who claims racism doesn't exist anymore, when you're drunk try to rub up against a black girl and say how you think all of us are beautiful, and try to act down in front of black people popmpous prick! Whew! I needed to get that off my chest. I am being a little sensitive right now.
Originally Posted by gagirl09
Are you in Athens?

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Originally Posted by ss40
No. I am in Michigan. I was having a flashback of undergrad memories lol. Actually I will be there in a monthish to visit my folks.
Last relaxer: Nov. 24, 2008
BC: December 19, 2009
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Last edited by gagirl09; 03-03-2013 at 08:39 PM.
Gagirl how is the new job going?

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I'm taking a hiatus from NC guys. I'm not healing and moving on as I should, while as you have all said, my ex and the other woman are happy without a thought of me. I'm not coping and I'm going to get more professional help to deal with my feelings before I hurt myself in a more permanent way.

You ladies have been amazing and nothing but supportive and I hope to be back sooner rather than later. Bye.
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Gagirl how is the new job going?
Originally Posted by juanab
It's good. I enjoy my students they are so raw and I like it, even though it comes with its own brand of issues. I am still up in the air about whether I will renew my contract though because I have a lack of competitive pay and I STILL haven't lived overseas. I am turning 26 in a few weeks and I was trying to be on hiatus from America until I turned 30. Thanks for asking!
Last relaxer: Nov. 24, 2008
BC: December 19, 2009
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So I wanna run a marathon. Beautiful Brown Baby Doll got me feeling all inspired. However if when I was running consistently I was averaging about 10 miles a week shouold I be aiming for a full marathon or half marathon? Also, does any have a great free website they can recommend? I have been to a few and they are just okay-some of the info conflicts with each other too. If there are any good book suggestions I will take those too.
Last relaxer: Nov. 24, 2008
BC: December 19, 2009
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I don't know how to find this but nike has a good plan, (although since I'm weight training I can't find time to do cardio so I hardly run but like once a week usually 4-6 miles in one session),


Google nike running you enter the date of your marathon and it trains you until then.
Have you ran a half marathon (13.1...that's a long ass time of running as it is, 26.2....lawwwd)? If not, then I'd train for that first, because after a half you might realize...f*** this sh*t


also ask cmb...in SIDY, she runs them...or did she's hurt right now
I don't know how to find this but nike has a good plan, (although since I'm weight training I can't find time to do cardio so I hardly run but like once a week usually 4-6 miles in one session),


Google nike running you enter the date of your marathon and it trains you until then.
Have you ran a half marathon (13.1...that's a long ass time of running as it is, 26.2....lawwwd)? If not, then I'd train for that first, because after a half you might realize...f*** this sh*t


also ask cmb...in SIDY, she runs them...or did she's hurt right now
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Yeah I asked a PT and he said do a half marathon first
Last relaxer: Nov. 24, 2008
BC: December 19, 2009
Products: Whatever works!
I don't know how to find this but nike has a good plan, (although since I'm weight training I can't find time to do cardio so I hardly run but like once a week usually 4-6 miles in one session),


Google nike running you enter the date of your marathon and it trains you until then.
Have you ran a half marathon (13.1...that's a long ass time of running as it is, 26.2....lawwwd)? If not, then I'd train for that first, because after a half you might realize...f*** this sh*t


also ask cmb...in SIDY, she runs them...or did she's hurt right now
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Yeah I asked a PT and he said do a half marathon first
Originally Posted by gagirl09



omg we should do the disney princess run TOGETHA...(it just ended so we have until next year LOL)
I don't know how to find this but nike has a good plan, (although since I'm weight training I can't find time to do cardio so I hardly run but like once a week usually 4-6 miles in one session),


Google nike running you enter the date of your marathon and it trains you until then.
Have you ran a half marathon (13.1...that's a long ass time of running as it is, 26.2....lawwwd)? If not, then I'd train for that first, because after a half you might realize...f*** this sh*t


also ask cmb...in SIDY, she runs them...or did she's hurt right now
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Yeah I asked a PT and he said do a half marathon first
Originally Posted by gagirl09



omg we should do the disney princess run TOGETHA...(it just ended so we have until next year LOL)
Originally Posted by murrrcat
LMAO. That name!!On principal I cannot
Last relaxer: Nov. 24, 2008
BC: December 19, 2009
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