"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." --- Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
I'm still figuring it out! Each time I've used it, either with Shea Moisture Curling stuff or some other conditioner, I've gotten the little white balls. It doesn't really help with shrinkage... I like it, though, I don't know why! It doesn't do a lot of things, and it makes detangling later on even more complicated... But I still try to use it every once in a while...
After I cowash I shake the water out of my hair, add shea moisture curl enhancing smoothie then I spray a little more water on and add a little eco styler by rubbing it in my hands then just brushing my hands over my hair and it turns out like the second pic or I use it when I slick my hair back and add braiding hair to make my faux bun like the first pic
I use it for EVERYTHING! Not a big fan of the argan oil one because it makes my hair flake so I stick to the olive oil. I use it on wet hair for my wash n go and coil out. I use it to slick my edges and baby hairs down. I also use it to refresh a style if I have a lot of frizz I just smooth it on the frizzy strands and they curl right back up.