I wasn't gonna post on this topic, but I agree with this statement. I respect all the sites to which I belong and support the mission and rules of each site. I know that NP is targeted to nappy natural hair, not curly or wavy natural hair, and I respect that. I also understand why it's geared to a specific type of natural hair.
I know that here, we support women whatever the state of their hair, and I respect that too. Doesn't mean I agree with everything that's posted, but that's okay. I also don't agree with every post on NP, but that's okay too. Because there is no "one board" on which I would agree with every poster, I belong to several boards, each with a different mission and comprised of different women.
I always make it a point to read a bunch of posts of any new board or email group I join before I post to get the vibe of what's acceptable and what's not for me to post, and so far that's worked pretty well for me.
Sorry to get off your topic lalapixie (about shingling). I look at shingling as a styling option (as I stated on NP too) and it's something I'm willing to explore at least once after I BC. I know you probably didn't mean any harm with your post, but once I saw how you'd worded a few phrases in your post (I'm sure innocent), I knew all heck was going to break loose on NP.