Thanks! I feel better about sticking with Elucence now since neither of the others got great reviews. I will probably do what shygirl suggested and get Moisturee as well as order Elucence. I wanted to narrow it down to just one choice to save money but my dh thinks I should go with both. That wasn't what I was expecting to hear from him.
A new thing I'm hesitant about is the recommendation that you follow Moisturee with Frehair. I can see how Frehair could possibly have enough slip following a moisturizing conditioner but having to use two conditioners in the shower sounds annoying.
3a/b, fine, lots of it