For Easter, my hair was super cute and bouncy - turns out JCCC (Jessicurl Confident Coils) works great for me after plopping! My ends stay really defined and not crunchy, and it dries fast. The problem I seem to be running in to now is terrible snarling and matting (almost felt-like and sort of dreadlock-ish) in the underlayers that rub against my shoulders. I absolutely do not want to wear my hair up all the time anymore - especially not now, since my 1-yr old isn't grabbing it all the time and I know how to make it look so good! But what else can I do?

I cold water rinse, I do vinegar sometimes, I keep my fingers out of my hair...what haven't I tried??
BSL/Mid Back, thick 3a/b

Botticelli Botanicals Meringue
Botticelli Botanicals Smoothie
Botticelli Botanicals Styling Mudd w/ double avocado oil and double agave
Botticelli Botanicals Lime in the Coconut Butter