Thank you Amda! That was so helpful. My logical brain has told me not to just throw out products I have w/ out more clarity. All silicones aren't harmful but some should be avoided for co-washers. Now I know which ones.
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4A. Hair goal chin level while curly - achieved Oct 2010!
Next Goal: Shoulder length - Achieved Summer 2012!
New Goal: Bra Strap Level
Routine
DT: Amla Silk Deep Therapy Restorative Masque , rhassoul clay
Leave-in: Amla Lavender Chamomile Leave-In Hair Cream,, Amla and Honey Detangling Conditioner, Bhaasvataa Oil