I actually left two other site for kind of the same reason. I had just found out about natural forums and I did a search and found a really popular one, so very happy I dived in. Well let me tell you my head was all but chopped off because I responded to a post about getting her hair straightened for her husband. I said go get it done by the Dominicans and make him happy for the day then wash it. I think I was ostracized after that. It's like bigotry.