I feel ya, thats what I was thinking. Then, their was a thread about this woman feeling down because she was turning 40, (I think), and she was thinking about perming. All the advice she got was don't do it, just get a cut and color. Then I started thinking how is color different? If it's ok to color then why not straighten?; it's all the same. I just found that to be hypocritical and it made me think about my decisions.