I am a member on the other site but I never really read much on there so I can't talk about how aggressive they may be with shutting people down but.. I really appreciate that this site does
tolerate that many of us go through a period of insecurity with our appearances as we learn how to manage our hair. Hair is a rather important accessory for most
men. Transitioning from wearing your hair straight with a relaxer to wearing it tightly coiled (now that I know I am a 4B heheee) is a BIG
deal. I mentioned in another post that my hair was ALWAYS done and well kept (no split ends) and predictable with a relaxer. I am by far not a hair neat freak but it didn't take much for me to achieve looks that I liked and were as diverse as my daily appearance. With my natural hair, I am working on getting to the same place. I LOVE the feel of it and I LOVE many of the looks that I have experimented with. HOWEVER, I have not gotten to the predictable part yet. I sincerely appreciate a forum where I don't have to walk on eggshells when posting a comment
as I conduct my personal research, express frustration, or report success (even though folks thought I was a spy for a hot minute). Is a curlie wrong for wanting curls to hang differently? Is a curlie wrong for wanting to be straight sometimes? I don't think so... its all about VARIETY. I change my hair like I change my underwear... daily.