Subbrock, what you said needed to be said and is greatly appreciated. I think we have to all be careful (if we care) to check ourselves every now and again.
Currently using:

Poo: CON Sulfate Free poo
Rinse out: Tresemme Naturals
Leave-in: CJAOO Daily Cond
Styler: KCCC sparingly and Ampro Olive Oil Gel where needed
DT: KBB Lucious Locks Mask + EVOO/Avocado