Do you use any conditioner on your daughter's hair? My daughter had similar hair at her age (it's curlier now). I started using Suave Naturals conditioner on her hair and it has helped cut down the frizzies. You can get it anywhere (I think it's less than a dollar at Wal-Mart) and it comes in several fragrances.
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