Woah woah woah. I find that really ignorant. When someone says you have nappy hair, why would you take that as mean? It may be untrue for you, but it is certainly not mean and derogatory. Nappy means tightly coiled, curled. I have nappy hair, and I am proud of it. it doesnt mean my hair is like the sahara desert or tangled. You and others should really look up definitions some times.