It's funny that I started this thread about finding the right style for me & I've turned it into more of a search of my inner self. I guess it's a little like the thread I started about finding your passion.
I think at this age, the kids are grown & our lives are a little less hectic & we have more time to think about ourselves. A good book is "How To Get What You Want & Want What You Have." I should read it again. I loaned it out & never got it back, so I'll have to buy another one.
Rouquinne, please think of us here as your family. I know we don't live near you, but we are here for you. You may not feel that good about yourself, but I have a lot of respect for you. You have accomplished a lot on your own.