I personally would have no problem with it under the right circumstances. I would say that since there are kids involved, he would need to have a healthy relationship with his ex-wife. Obviously she will always be a part of his life to some degree or another, and the last thing you need is the mother of his children giving him a hard time about his new woman. Having kids doesn't bother me as long as he is a good dad, and it shows me how he would be if we were to have kids. With the divorce rate being as high as it is, it will become more and more difficult the older we get for single people to find a partner that hasnt been married before or that doesn't have kids from a previous relationship.
Imagine if you and they were meant to be. Wouldnt that be reason enough why his first marriage didn't work. So you'd risk missing out on that because he made a mistake the first time around?
This topic is the exact reason though that more couples should wait to have children. Solidify your roles as husband and wife and build a solid foundation before bringing children into the picture.
- February 25, 2004
Aya. That's Aya spelled backwards.
Barack Obama for President in 2008!