i'm no expert but it sounds to me like it's over conditioned. you probably don't need the deep condish if you're conditioning everyday and also using a leave-in condish. but since we don't have the same hair i don't know what else to tell ya.
ETA: oooh didn't think of that cyndi...good point!
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