Vagabond, you really come off as quite angry in almost all of your posts. I am white and I am married to a soldier. I was not baiting you or looking for an arguement. I asked simply because you said something that sparked my interest as a military spouse and I wanted to know. The military has it's problems. I definitely agree with that. Like RCC, I cannot stand the recruiting tactics. My husband's recruiter lied to us about so many things that I couldn't in good conscience ever agree to him being a recruiter.
I just realized that I mispelled your name in one of my posts, so I will go change that.