I understand what your saying people look at you and already think they know your background. Happens to me everyday of my life. I have tight 3c curls and dark skin but my mom is 3/4 scottish and 1/4 african and my dad is entirely portuguese. People assume both my parents are dark and everything but neither of them are. This is a picture of me:
If someone saw me they wouldnt know where I come from. I think people need to stop looking at someone and thinking they know where they come from. I went to Portugal and I began to speak portuguese to someone behind the counter and everyone was shocked that im a african girl speaking portuguese. In fact english isnt even my first language its portuguese. Honestly, I think everyone needs to stop judging by what you look like
I cant fight my curls
I cant control my curls
I really just let them roll free
What else can i do?
~I have curly curly 3c hair w/ some 4a up in little corners!
~I'm have a love affair with the Ojon Line and faithfully use Garnier Fructis Spray Gel.
~I love all my kinks, coils, and curls even when I wanna rip them out!
~Trying to gorw out to BSL, any tips? Drop a mesage!