afro - I'm like you. I actually have a routine that works but I keep messing around trying to be a semi-PJ. Last week, my hair was about ready to kill me for it too.
That being said, I'm up late tonight (like the little child fighting sleep), looking at more vids and okay, I just had to indulge myself
Oyin Handmade 4-Piece Hair Care Sampler: Honey Hemp Conditioner
, Greg Juice
, Shine & Define, Whipped Pudding
Burnt Sugar Pomade
Grand Poo Bar