Mix 2-3 tbls of Aubrey Organics Honeysuckle Rose condish with water or aloe vera juice, vegetable glycerin and essentail oils of your choice. That works a treat.
I always have this mixture in an 8oz spritz bottle.
My hair does not like Shea butter so coconut oil and jojoba oil are staples for me. I use jojoba oil on my scalp and coconut oil on my ends.