Sahara, that's a tough one, for sure. I always like to think that people don't do that kind of thing intentionally -- it's likely that she had the product for a while and didn't even know what was going on inside.
But that doesn't change the fact that you paid for something you can't use.
Have you PM'd as well as emailed (if possible)? She might be on vacation or something. Did you pay via PayPal? If you did, you can always file a claim through them -- and that will likely get her attention.
A good swapper/seller, though, generally follows up with the recipient to make sure everything arrived as expected. If she's new, maybe she doesn't know that?
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