What am I doing wrong? We used this on my son's (3c/4a) hair and it was crunchy and stiff!! Is this right?? I used it on his hair while it was dry - was that my mistake? Let me know at what point of your "routine" do you use it? Any suggestions would be great!!! I am really just looking for something to get rid of day 2/3 frizz!!! Thanks!!