I got tired of fighting with my hair so I had my husband pick the longest curl in the back and make the rest match. My ends were jagged and my curls were starting to split in a forked tongue...now I just speak with one instead of wearing them on my head.
I'll post pictures later.
Here's where I was - my ends were getting stringy, uneven and very tangly due to the too different length layers. It looked good but the underneath was a total nightmare - I couldn't even comb it anymore without breaking it a lot. All the knots are gone now. woo hoo!