I haven't bought anything from Etsy (yet!) but here are some of my favorite shops:

Jewelry:
http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=5393842
http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=6102285

Clothing/Accessories: (I love the scarves)
http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=5397578
http://public.fotki.com/opera-curls/ (I cut my own hair)
Pacific Northwest girl, color-treated fine 3B, med-low porosity

Products: Suave Coconut condish, Giovanni Direct Leave-In, FSG or KCCC, AfroVeda Shea-Amla Cream
I LOVE HENNA!