I'm 19, newly single and (honestly...) I wanna look good. I have 3C Hair, I just learned to love it!!

I have a few help questions... I have light red natural hair that was fading to strawberry-blonde in spots so I colored it dark red (Redken - 4R Lava, to be exact.) Love it! Problem is my eyebrows are my natural, light red, color. Should I color them the Lava color and tint it just a couple shades? What can I do to make my eyebrows look good with this color?

Also, my curls are trying to go straight, making my haircut look odd! Would anyone say a perm is bad idea?