i have 3b hair with layers. i put spray gel, sometimes mousse in. i usually air dry, but when it dries while its down, the top half gets pulled down by the weight and ends up not-so-pretty. so i usually put it up in a bun, ponytail, or clip, but then the top half is flatter than the rest as a result of being pulled back. does anyone have any tips, or know any styling products that would make my layers and the hair by my roots stick out more?