#1: Why? Oh, Why?!
My hair falls near shoulder length and is a mixture of 3b-3c. But as soon as I put gel, moose, or curling cream on the hair while it's wet, it curls up above the ears making it look like I have short hair. Without any product, it poofs up into a dry frizz ball. Is there a way to keep my hair relaxed without chemical or straighting/curling iron treatment?