Have you tried the virtual hairstylist at iVillage (http://beauty.ivillage.com/stc/hairs...stopic,bs,lnav). If you put in "curly" and "medium", it'll give you a few ideas. Unfortunately, you can only see about six styles for no charge. I've never paid for the full mode view, so I can't say if it's worth the $$.
Couple of inches past shoulder length 3A. Shampoo every 3rd or 4th day w/ baby shampoo; Tigi Fashionista conditioner; back to Condition 3-in-1 mousse . Alternate days water rinse, conditioner and mousse.