I had my haircut and the stylist used a toner on my hair to fill in the gaps she said and tone down the blonde. Well it was so freaking dark! I tried to use a blonde coloring on it and it turned a weird bluish purple color, I managed to get that out wit Dawn dish detergent, baking soda and a clarifying shampoo.....now the color is darker and just weird. I purchased more blonde in a different brand and did a strand test, same deal.... Blue purple!!! Any advice???! My hair cannot handle a color remover, how can I get it blonde again without totally ruining it?