Who knows how to calm down curly hair?

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I am mixed, and part of my hair is easily a 2c, while the other is a 3c/3b.


I love my curls, and texture, however when I style my hair, it is soo thick. It gets to big, i just want it to sort of lay down when i style it.

I was thinking if I put a relaxer on my hair for a few mins or so, maybe that will make it lay down more. I have tried many products, however most of the define my curls, and take away frizz, which is great. But I want something to lay my curls down.

Any tips ?
i have the same problem, like really thick big hair.... especially now cause i had a dramatic climate change, so its made my hair even bigger :/ and the only way ive been able to "deal" with it, is i use a bit of water to refresh then a bit of oil to settle, and have learnt to live n embrace my big hair my man loves it so that really helps me

my hair: 3c, high porosity, high density and coarse hair (i think i finally figured that all out)
my hair loves conditioner only styling!
my hair goal length is bra strap length when curly.

I also blog about my hair journey, please feel free to read and comment/ask questions http://www.naturallycurly.com/blogs/...air-blogs/2494
It's important to know your hair properties--when you say you have "thick, big" hair, I don't know if you mean that the strands are coarse (texture) or if you density is dense or both. Here's a thread that will help you with determining your properties: Live Curly Live Free - Home It's easier to help you and suggest products/ingredients if we know your properties.

Something you may want to consider is "sealing." It's putting a "rich" product on your hair as a "barrier" to the moisture in the air. That keeps your hair from getting "big." Some people use oils or butters, my hair prefers a richer product that contains oils/butters, but not a pure oil or butter. You can use it as the first product on in styling, or after your leave in. That way, your hair is moisturized and not seeking more moisture.

Unlike using a silicone, your hair will eventually absorb this product/ingredient. In the long run, it's healthier. You just need to watch out for it building up in case your hair doesn't absorb it all. For me, natural soap removes it or a product with coco b like CJ Daily Fix or CK Cleanse.
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3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity
modified CG, since April '07
CG since 3/11/08

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HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me, Marie Dean Leave Ins and Curl Creams
I have discovered for my hair to calm down....i have to section my hair off before i co-wash it. I first detangle with my widetooth comb and fingers really well while my hiar is saturated in conditioner....but what makes a difference is my Denman brush.....it helps not only thoroughly detangle and removes ALL sheds...when i use it on each section it helps my hair lay flatter on my head.

Given the nature of my hair...i'm 3c/4a-ish...my hair will slightly "rise" when dry...but it doesn't get all huge and puffy.

I agree with kathy about using rich/thick conditioners though when doing your hair.
2yrs 7 months post relaxer/2 years and 11 months natural

Cleanse: SM Moisture Retention or Suave Naturals shampoos
Co-Wash: Suave Naturals, L'Oreal EverCreme or EverCurl
RO/Detangler: Tresseme Naturals, GVPCB
Leave-In: SM Curl Enhancing Smoothie, TN, GVPCB
Styler: EcoStyler, GF Pure Clean gel, KCCC

Just discovering my hair likes protein!

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