A hard hold gel shouldn't get frizzy as long as you use LI, apply wet, and SOTC afterwards. Sometimes glycerin in gels can cause Hair to be frizzy, depending on your dew point, but there are plenty of gels without it if that is a problem.
so you guys are thinking gel? the only thing with gel is won't my hair get nasty if it gets touched? ive always had short hair but now that its long and all wavy/messy everybody loves touching it when i go out at night which is why i wanted something pliable where it won't get messed up/frizzy if touched