No Idea what to do
 

I've been on the website here for around 2 weeks and I have read the starting off forums but my hair still lacks in definition is dry and dead, I have straight ends and a "inverted bob" I believe as you can see in my picture. I really need help I want to cut my straighter ends off. my twin sister and I got a haircut around the same time(we have straightened our hair both once a year since we were 11 or 12, we are 15 now) and her curls are way nicer than mine. I have no idea what to do or what products to do. I just want to cut all of it off! its so frustrating!!
help me please!

You want to cut it?

Then cut it! :) No shame in that at all. What are you afraid of?

That it will look bad, get cut to short. Or I'll have no idea what to do w it, one min I will post a pict if my just out of shower w/ tresme mouse and some cholesterol another question: my hair always is super dry in mornings but when I put conditioners in it it just gets drier, my mom says putting water and conditioner will dry my hair out

Hair W mousse
 

This is a couple minutes after I applied the mousse in my hair.... so far so good

I think it'll look fine if you just cut off the straight parts. I'm just imagining it in my head as drawing a line right across the area you want to cut. Shoot you could probably do it yourself :).

That's what I was thinking :) I will try to get it cut asap thxs 4 all the help

Yup, yup! And you'll feel better once your see just your curls and not the damaged ends.

what kind of conditioners? do you seal?

Your hair is so beautiful! Cut them straight ends and be free, Goddess! :)


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Organixs coconut milk and shea butter, and Aussie moist. How do u seal? Just woke up and my hair is super puffy and policing all over the place and it is very very dry

sealing is after the shower using an oil on your ends. this helps trap the moisture. sleeping on a silk or satin pillow case really really helps as well.
p.s your english is really good. :flower:

I live in the us but I visit germany every year.do you seal every time u take a shower? And any ideas on what to bring (hair wise) when traveling

Yes, seal every time you wet and moisturize your hair. Hmm, depends on where youre going. Are you taking a trip any time soon?

Yes to Germany. And I'm getting my hair cut wednesday and my mom us complaining this whole week about it saying my hair is gonna be super short and I'm going to hate it. And on top of that she is making me pay!!! And thxs Rimi I will seal more I used hair milk from just for me it makes my hair so soft!

But also I think I am afraid of losing all that length I really want my hair long but hair only grow 1/2 in a year so... But I know that cutting it will make it healthier

Yeah give sealing a try! And for now, ignore what your mother is saying about your hair...lol! Once you lose the straight ends, your hair will look, feel and be healthier!

Good luck!

So daily should I wet my hair? At night or just in the morning, then seal? Should I rinse @ night in the shower? Srry 4 all the questions

No problem at all! Wet as needed. Some people wet in the morning in the shower every day. Some people spray their hair every other day. Some people just wet once a week.

It's up to you do decide how often you need to wet and when. Just make sure that you moisturize and/or seal after you wet your hair.

Thanks so much I will post a pic of my hair when it gets cut

Just got my hair cut!!! Will post pics later,the stylist was so nice and he knew how to cut my hair right now its kinda like a mini Afro if it gets frizzy but it's rlly cute in a high pony tail