Me too :/ I've kind of just given up on ever stopping lol. I know the days that my hands are busy though, my hair ends up looking a lot better, so the busier your hands are, the less free time they'll have to wreaking havoc on your hair ;D
i agree ^^ while my hair is drying, ill tip my head upside down and sake it quiet a bit, the more the better. though the minute that i touch my hair with my hands then i get worst fizz n when i do touch my hair i just put same water or oil on my hands and kinda smooth it over, that helps as well.
my hair: 3c, high porosity, high density and coarse hair (i think i finally figured that all out)
my hair loves conditioner only styling!
my hair goal length is bra strap length when curly.
I still haven't been able to do this. I always end up touching my hair to move it away from my baby and I usually don't have it in me to stop her from twirling a strand when she is half asleep nursing.