#1: Curly hair either fros up or is a stringy mess
So, white male here, naturally curly hair. Figured the best place to come with this question would be here, where mostly women are, figured you gals would know most about the topic. So anyways, as of now its around 2 inches from my shoulders, as time goes on it has more hang on it, which i want, it will either frizz out, leaving a dry messy look, or it has a soft afro look. I have tight curls, when my hair is wet its like ringlets. I'd just really like to know how to go about this, i'm definitely wanting to grow it out, but not if its only gonna grow OUT like a afro. And its extremely thick, so i want a more like soft, wavy look that is easier to control, then a thick curly afro. I've thought about going to a salon and getting it thinned also. Any help would be much appreciated.