So the front and middle of my hair is 4b (froish) and the sides and back by my nape are mostly 4a (curly) and it's bugging me so much!

THe front is all soft and poofy but the sides have super defined culrs that want to hang out and down so they stick out of my froish hair. What should I do to remidy this?

Oh, and it's only on second (thrid whatever) day hair. After i get a shower and detangle it's not all that bad.

3C/4A mix (Seriously it's all over the place)
Hair is kinda fine and kinda thick.
Super short, I'd like definition but styling products don't like me

Profile pic taken the February 2015
Chopped off (was shoulder length) November 2014