So the front and middle of my hair is 4b (froish) and the sides and back by my nape are mostly 4a (curly) and it's bugging me so much!

THe front is all soft and poofy but the sides have super defined culrs that want to hang out and down so they stick out of my froish hair. What should I do to remidy this?

Oh, and it's only on second (thrid whatever) day hair. After i get a shower and detangle it's not all that bad.

3C/4A mix
Fineish hair
Super short, needs definition
Also, fuzzy as hell