im black, white, hispanic, and native . my hair is 3c with some 3b in it, and even when its wet or has conditioner, its STILL so frizzy ! :/ the curls come together when i have a ton of moisture or conditioner, or some gel in it. i want to try carols daughter but i dont know which ones to get for my hair. its thick but the strands are fine & silky, yet frizzy and wild ! what can i do?