I'm still diligently trying to find THE product (i.e. gel....but I have found that my PM Sculpting Foam works the best so far for me. I want to try the JoiWhip next, since everyone seems to love it, though. I have 3B curls - curlier on top than bottom. My hair seems to blend better with mousse.
Have had my hair short for almost a year now. No regrets! Still loving it!