You know what..you're right. Quidad is carve and slice and Deva doesn't use that method from what I have researched.
What a shame. I have had stylists do the same thing...say they knew one method and did another.
Do not panic babe..all will turn out well. On my wedding day I went to a stylist so she could do my hair..she was suppose to trim my bangs and enhance my natural curls. She enhanced my natural curls but left my front a frizzy mess (Basically ratted it and hair sprayed it). No kidding! Here's what had happened.
I had to go to her house the morning of my wedding...I had to pay her up front which was not part of the original agreement, but being as it was the morning of my wedding I was in no position to argue. So I paid her..she styled my hair...didn't even show it to me..and left in a hurry asking me to lock her door on the way out cuz she was late for another job. Oh My Goodness!!!! I was so horrified when I finally saw my bangs in my car mirror. I was so upset, but I kept my cool, drove home, wetted my bangs, trimmed them and curled them myself and no one was any the wiser. Not to mention I told evey single woman I knew what had happened and never to go to that stylist.
On another note, most men really do not care about your hair..some do but many don't. If ya ask them they'll answer but for the most part it really truly does not matter to them. Wear your hair however it looks best to you. You look good to yourself, you feel good from it and you become radiant. See where I am going with this. If YOU feel good about how you look it will shine through and in that instant you will be the most beautiful woman he has ever seen.