I have very thick, coarse 3b hair that I've been trying to grow long, and 2 months ago I got a trim
The person who cut it, cut off like 4 inches.
so I lost most of the length I had been trying to grow.
Since I'm a 3b I lose a lot of length that I already have
So I decided months ago that I'd use a no-lye mild relaxer just to LOOSEN the curl...
because I had done it 2 years ago with great results I just left it in for less time. It was way less poofy, less frizzy and i could go productless with great waves and 3a curls. It did slowly fade and I had curlier hair every month
So I did it again the other day, my hair is STICK STRAIGHT, no wave at all
I tried scrunching it with gel, deep conditioning, honey
It still falls stick straight
I desperately miss my curls and want them back, just seeing someone with curly hair makes me sooo sad
I'm willing to PERM if necessary
please, someone give me a word of advice