Ok so I have finally decided to admit to myself that my hair just simply hates oils. In little bits it's fine but products I have tried such as the new Garnier Fructis Triple Nutrition Conditioner, KBB, adding oil to my Flaxseed gel, Healthy Sexy hair Pumpkin condish, I could go on. My hair just get limp and frizzy. On the other hand my hair loves herbal extracts, butters, and milks. Anyone else have this problem? I could have swore I saw a thread about it at some point. Any product recs?